I was recently reading fandom_wank and someone commented that they are very much the bullying sort. That if they don't like you, your character or don't believe that you belong in their little RP world that they will resort to great lengths toward getting rid of you.
Could they be one of the people going around posting the kill yourself shit? I have been re-reading fandom_wank, but can't find that post again, yet. My computer reset and I lost the page. The person that mentioned it say they saw first hand things that they did and said.
I don't know who that person is, but coming to the conclusion that they're the one posting the kill yourself shit because of one almost year-old post where a single person said they were a bully seems a little far-fetched.
Not to whiteknight because this player could be a total douche for all I know, but using this post to connect them to something recent seems like grasping at straws.
You are completely and totally right. It was a pretty knee jerk reaction. I do get that, but I still figured asking was a good idea to ask.
Lots of feelings going on due to that, but I am really quite serious about doing the whole detective work on it when I find something. If no one has deets that I will drop it and I apologize. It is pretty important for me to find out who it is though. Especially if I am in the same circles with them. I am kind of sick, and really freaked out that there is a person out there who thinks telling people to kill themselves among other bullying tactics is socially acceptable.
Having RP problems and going on about those issues is cool and acceptable. Trying to push someone who already has/had issues like that all their life among other things is kind of sick. Whether you know about them or not. You shouldn't have to know about them to think that saying such things is actually acceptable practice.
Sixthanamorph?
(Anonymous) 2013-04-12 06:36 am (UTC)(link)Could they be one of the people going around posting the kill yourself shit? I have been re-reading fandom_wank, but can't find that post again, yet. My computer reset and I lost the page. The person that mentioned it say they saw first hand things that they did and said.
Any deets?
http://www.journalfen.net/community/fandom_wank/1286855.html
(Anonymous) 2013-04-12 06:56 am (UTC)(link)http://wankgate.dreamwidth.org/6940.html?thread=16984604#cmt16984604
(Anonymous) 2013-04-12 01:53 pm (UTC)(link)agreed with below anon that your conclusion is flimsy but they seem to be an unpleasant sort anyways
Re: Sixthanamorph?
(Anonymous) 2013-04-12 08:51 am (UTC)(link)Not to whiteknight because this player could be a total douche for all I know, but using this post to connect them to something recent seems like grasping at straws.
Re: Sixthanamorph?
(Anonymous) 2013-04-14 03:31 am (UTC)(link)Lots of feelings going on due to that, but I am really quite serious about doing the whole detective work on it when I find something. If no one has deets that I will drop it and I apologize. It is pretty important for me to find out who it is though. Especially if I am in the same circles with them. I am kind of sick, and really freaked out that there is a person out there who thinks telling people to kill themselves among other bullying tactics is socially acceptable.
Having RP problems and going on about those issues is cool and acceptable. Trying to push someone who already has/had issues like that all their life among other things is kind of sick. Whether you know about them or not. You shouldn't have to know about them to think that saying such things is actually acceptable practice.