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weren't people making fun of pyra extensively for the same overdramatic nonsense one pagescroll up? did anyone clamor for the mods then?

anon. no one linked a suicide note or pyra's tumblr. pyra's threats were made to game mates while she was still in a game in order to get what she wanted with the rp. that was rp related.

what's going on here at this moment isn't.

tbh i feel like it is relevant because this is the type of bitch who would change her identity and come back. if anything we should keep an eye on her

don't fucking lose track of her like you did with jasper

she has. some anon caught her changing her identity to "nova".

if she were trying to do that, then she wouldn't have apparently been found in an incoherent state by the cops last night. the "attempt" would have worked.

who gives a shit if she wants to sneak back into rp or not? we're talking about someone's well-being, not pretendy fun times.

this is going to sound harsh but, anon, this is her reaction to being called out for being an abusive asshole to people in the pretendy fun times hobby. i hope she gets the help she needs, i do, because she clearly needs it, but people here need to stop pretending like she's untouchable now because of this.

she's not. she still needs to be held accountable for how she has treated other people -- including other people with no shortage of mental/emotional problems of their own that are actually trying to be better vs. her pulling pyra-level shit x10.

i, for one, don't want her sneaking anywhere because i don't want her to do this kind of shit to more people. or be allowed to do this to herself every time things don't go the way she wants or she can't handle fucking reality.

this. one thousand times this

being mentally ill or suicidal does NOT mean you get to shirk all responsibility for your actions, especially when said actions are directly harmful to real people (who, yes, have their own mental problems that make them extra vulnerable to her abusive behavior).

I hope she gets help but I also hope she never shows her face in this hobby again, and that if she does this follows her so that everyone knows to be wary and not be sucked-in by her bullshit tornado. she really does need to stay away until she learns how to handle RP like an actual person.

Um, I give a lot if shits because I don't want someone like this sneaking in to my life. People like this are literally dangerous to the people around them.

people care because she's been hurting others in this hobby and because of this hobby. she's been using threats of suicide, family abuse stories, "if you were my friend you would xyz", and various other lines to seriously manipulate and hurt a lot of people because she's a brat about pretendy fun times. she didn't get her way, people didn't invite her to inconsequential shit, she couldn't app a character she wanted, she didn't understand rules of a game, the list of stupid, petty reasons she exploded on people over goes on.

if she can't play nice with others, she shouldn't get to play at all. her well being is important, but it doesn't excuse her for the abuse she's put others through, and will surely put more people through if she sneaks back in.

and letting get away with this because they threatens suicide or it'd cause them pain is NOT HELPING THEM, if you really want them to get better, they have to know this behavior is not okay, this not a healthy way of handling conflict, and it'd only make things worse.

There's times you need to handle someone with kid gloves, other times you have to give someone a wake up punch to the face in order for them to realize they need some serious, professional help.

fwiw i was specifically referring to the link to her suicide note, which has since been taken down, and a few comments that were under that link that were just derisive and not a discussion of her manipulation. that was the "making fun of." discussion isn't necessarily making fun of. i'm not at all against people discussing this, especially people who have been directly hurt by this. but making fun of it? that's pure trash.

nobody made fun of it.

again, check out the story of the boy who cried wolf. tora has threatened suicide so many times that people find it hard to believe. that's tora's fault for faking so many times.

yeah, somebody did. it got deleted. i didn't see it =/= it didn't happen.

i don't see any links to tora's tumblr either tho

it's somewhere in one of these threads. i just can't remember where.

There was one last night, but since it had a suicide note and personal info, it was deleted.

damn. i wish i knew what her tumblr was now. i'm curious.

It's stupidly easy to find. Google her dumb name.

unless she goes by another dumb name other than "tora" and/or "nova" then google the name alone isn't going to help much.

Yes it fucking does, that's how I found her tumblr again myself after the linkdrop here was deleted/screened. How about you try it. Put your thinking cap on real hard and you'll find it.

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(Anonymous) - 2015-11-26 02:40 (UTC) - Expand

calm down.

only tangentially related to this, but why is it so popular for people to tell each other to "calm down" or accuse someone of being angry/upset? especially with something like this, that isn't even close to looking like this anon needs to be told to calm down?

do you do this in real life?

"damn, i missed the train."
"oh my god, calm down!"

you're talking to socially stunted handflappers. they don't leave the house. is it any surprise they have no idea how to communicate or read tone?

because they're incapable of addressing the point that you made, and since we're anon they can't strawman your appearance or fandom preferences, so literally the only way they can answer back is to tell you to stop talking

the mods finally screened it this afternoon some time.

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