I did read through. Asking someone to hold off on a plot to give them time to fucking breathe, and then jumping ship to another band and being upset at the assumption that someone assuming this means no more CR ever and thus blocking them out of say on what their character would do? Is not controlling.
You wouldn't be batting an eye and calling the other person controlling if it weren't another wanker.
It's Hat/Fedora. She has a long history of heavily misrepresenting situations like this AND of being gross and manipulative over people RPing things she doesn't want them to. Is asking someone for a little breathing room in what seems like very dramatic CR unreasonable? No, not at all, but I'm willing to bet that Hat was less than reasonable about the way she asked for it. This is someone who has repeatedly had her characters turn against close CR specifically because the other players were too busy to tag or were flaky- not just cut off the CR, but made a point of constantly playing up how betrayed and hurt her characters were by it both ICly and oocly.
I don't know Quix beyond having been in the same game with them once or twice, I'm sure they're an asshole. But Hat will do anything she can to play the victim no matter how manipulative or abusive she herself may have been in a situation so frankly, taking her word at face value is a mistake.
Put it this way: if this had been Airi coming to Quix and asking to have her band changed, that'd be one thing. However this pastebin was a result of Airi constantly making vague but clearly targeted plurks about how people should be changing their plans to suit her. She was making no effort to solve the situation.
While I think Quix should've let her change bands the second she asked, which she did later on, I also think that changing her band would just result in the same problems for some other band down the line. Airi doesn't play well with others. Period. She spent the entire plurk trying to manipulate Quix and getting mad when she was called on it. I guess to people who haven't dealt with her brand of bullshit it looks like she was being reasonable, but her favorite thing to do is to point out how you're being a bad person and making her feel bad but will play the victim and insist you're reading too much into her words when you try to point it out when she's doing it.
In addition to that, Airi blatantly misrepresented the situation in regards to her power regain. She wasn't being blocked from getting them at all, she was just told that she couldn't jump too much at once. That's easy enough to fact check.
She's a textbook case of manipulation and shouldn't be roleplaying.
honestly it wouldn't surprise me if she was the one who made the namedrop in the first place.
she's one of those people who claims to stay off of anoncomms entirely because they're ~toxic~ but the second she left the game we shared (which she made no secret of hating) virtually every stitch of wank on the game's anon threads (which always seemed to line up perfectly with her opinions) ~mysteriously~ disappeared. i can literally count the times that game has even come up on anoncomms since then on one hand, and it was previously considered one of the wankiest games out there due to how out of control the anon threads got with screaming vitriol.
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(Anonymous) 2016-05-03 06:43 pm (UTC)(link)You wouldn't be batting an eye and calling the other person controlling if it weren't another wanker.
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(Anonymous) 2016-05-04 07:09 am (UTC)(link)I don't know Quix beyond having been in the same game with them once or twice, I'm sure they're an asshole. But Hat will do anything she can to play the victim no matter how manipulative or abusive she herself may have been in a situation so frankly, taking her word at face value is a mistake.
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(Anonymous) 2016-05-05 04:25 am (UTC)(link)Put it this way: if this had been Airi coming to Quix and asking to have her band changed, that'd be one thing. However this pastebin was a result of Airi constantly making vague but clearly targeted plurks about how people should be changing their plans to suit her. She was making no effort to solve the situation.
While I think Quix should've let her change bands the second she asked, which she did later on, I also think that changing her band would just result in the same problems for some other band down the line. Airi doesn't play well with others. Period. She spent the entire plurk trying to manipulate Quix and getting mad when she was called on it. I guess to people who haven't dealt with her brand of bullshit it looks like she was being reasonable, but her favorite thing to do is to point out how you're being a bad person and making her feel bad but will play the victim and insist you're reading too much into her words when you try to point it out when she's doing it.
In addition to that, Airi blatantly misrepresented the situation in regards to her power regain. She wasn't being blocked from getting them at all, she was just told that she couldn't jump too much at once. That's easy enough to fact check.
She's a textbook case of manipulation and shouldn't be roleplaying.
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(Anonymous) 2016-05-05 10:00 am (UTC)(link)now i'm wondering if airi is hanging around here and posting to stir crap
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(Anonymous) 2016-05-05 11:12 am (UTC)(link)she's one of those people who claims to stay off of anoncomms entirely because they're ~toxic~ but the second she left the game we shared (which she made no secret of hating) virtually every stitch of wank on the game's anon threads (which always seemed to line up perfectly with her opinions) ~mysteriously~ disappeared. i can literally count the times that game has even come up on anoncomms since then on one hand, and it was previously considered one of the wankiest games out there due to how out of control the anon threads got with screaming vitriol.
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(Anonymous) 2016-05-05 03:11 pm (UTC)(link)