man the really annoying thing is that as someone canon-familiar the castle is a fun character who a good rper would do justice, and its 'mind' has been put in smaller robotic bodies before so there are compromises she could easily make instead of insisting on playing it as a fucking castle which would be basically unworkable in any game
then anon should talk about that? bringing up what his father in law did was just stupid as fuck and that was my personal issue with that dumbassery.
but yeah sure whatever, i've never gotten into the musical myself and don't really know anything about it so i won't argue over that. fuck sensitive babies who are offended by cap america tho.
it just seems like weird, petty shit to add on to long passed issues at this point. yeah, sure, i could bring it up but the people it involves are already gone and damned so what's the point?
Asking for details about harassment they were getting.
I was a mod of the game they played in, and they came to me telling me about another player who was harassing them. I asked for details about it: more information, pastebins, anything. Basically I wanted something more substantial than "she's being mean to me!" before I approached the other player about it.
The first player got mad and said I should believe them about the harassment. I told them that without proof, all I could do was tell the other player not to play with them. They threw a hissy fit and dropped from my game.
Back when my game was still open (this was in the early days of Dreamwidth) any time someone mentioned my game, this player would jump in and tell that person that I was a terrible mod and that nobody should play at my game. All because I wouldn't kick a player out of my game without proof of harassment.
well unless you're the one on my timeline who constantly then bitches that everyone ignores them and they're meaningless, then yay you. Sadly the person doing this shit on my timeline then goes on about how no one cares, no one listens, they might as well vanish because they're worthless. That's more than venting, and this person sure sounds like the one the op is talking about.
she has it on the sidebar of her blog and everything, like, it's no joke. she really thinks she founded the ship. like no one would've ever thought to ship these two characters unless she did it first*.
japanese fandom? don't worry about them. they're just mimicking american fandom.
probably because they are misogynistic shitheads who aren't used to women saving the men and not being trophies that the male characters can stick their dicks in at the end.
that and the new movies do turn the people wearing their nostalgia goggles too tight on their heads. all of their faves aren't together still, paling around the universe and kicking ass. luke and han were embittered old men that even mark hamill said was not "his luke" before he watched the movie as a whole and took back that statement.
i actually like the changes and risks the new movie took. there was a lot of shitting on the jedi order but i felt like luke's criticisms about it were justified when you look at how stupid the jedi have been in the movies. it's no wonder why the only smart ones end up becoming hermits.
i don't know if it's happening to *only* me, but my threads get dropped fast enough that there's a visually obvious difference between their threads with me and their other threads under the same toplevel or other people's toplevels (i have a lot of cr in common with both of them so i see a lot of those). it's hard to analyze my own tags objectively but i don't think i tag them significantly differently than i do other people who tag me back just fine? i don't actually think either of them hates me but the *character* not interesting them is something i've considered. but that's not really a problem i can solve, you know?
part of the problem is that ic circumstances make it hard to plot anything significant and logically exclude them, especially with the common cr i mentioned. but hard doesn't mean impossible and after talking through this i'll definitely give it another shot. so thanks for the push i guess.
If we were castmates or previously close CR, I'd wonder if it was something personal, but if it were just a case of close casts but personally only fringe CR I'd assume it was a weird preference thing. Either way, no point in stressing over it, especially if they refuse to explain.
i might ask if there was anything i could fix, and privately i'd probably be hurt, but i'd respect their wishes and not put my feelings on them
depends a tiny bit on how they did answer. if it was "i'd rather not talk about it" i'd respect that. if it was some shitty "you should know why" i might be like 'i really don't and i'd really like to know what i could do better' but ultimately it would probably end up with me walking away and respecting it
i'd ask them for ideas about how to deal with this in a way that won't affect the rest of the cast/mutual CR
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