had a former eway player tell me she was good friends with koji and always got along well with her.

and then koji exploded at her when she came to her in private asking for help on something with another player crossing the line (it was a player she'd wanted no contact with, she'd been polite about it, player threw a fit at her over it), basically telling her it was all her fault and she should just ignore the other player even when she gets approached by her. made her feel even more unwelcome in the game than she had already and she dropped not long after.

not surprisingly, the player in question was one of koji's close buddies who always seemed to get a free pass on things.