also making this about rp; it's one thing to have your own personal preferences, that's all very valid, but rp is also fictional. i think it's okay even if breast/nipple play does nothing for you, if you want to explore it or if your partner similarly wants to explore it, to feel free to make it up and use your imagination? like i don't get the sentiment of letting personal inexperience or indifference prevent you from writing about something a character could very well be into?*

like most of us here are afab writing about cocks and dicks, we have no real way of knowing what that actually personally feels like. and it's going to feel different for everyone. i absolutely hate penetrative sex but when i write a character enjoying it i'm not going to bring my personal feelings into it. that fictional character isn't me, and rp is fiction in the first place. we're all using our imaginations here.

*obviously i'm not talking about triggers and squicks here