dda

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 08:42 pm (UTC)(link)
also making this about rp; it's one thing to have your own personal preferences, that's all very valid, but rp is also fictional. i think it's okay even if breast/nipple play does nothing for you, if you want to explore it or if your partner similarly wants to explore it, to feel free to make it up and use your imagination? like i don't get the sentiment of letting personal inexperience or indifference prevent you from writing about something a character could very well be into?*

like most of us here are afab writing about cocks and dicks, we have no real way of knowing what that actually personally feels like. and it's going to feel different for everyone. i absolutely hate penetrative sex but when i write a character enjoying it i'm not going to bring my personal feelings into it. that fictional character isn't me, and rp is fiction in the first place. we're all using our imaginations here.

*obviously i'm not talking about triggers and squicks here

Re: dda

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 08:46 pm (UTC)(link)
idk I thought I was mostly clear that it just didn't interest me and that just goes into writing. If someone wants to write a scene with it I will, it just isn't all that fun for me. Nothin' deep.

Re: dda

(Anonymous) 2022-02-25 04:02 am (UTC)(link)
one of the above anons talking about having numb tits: it's definitely another story when i am writing kinks like breastplay. i'll often have my character be more receptive to sex things i'm not simply because it's fun to write. like penetration alone doesn't do it for me personally, but i know it works for some people, i've had partners who enjoy it, so i know it's a thing and i'll write my character getting off to it.

in a way it's kind of a wish fulfillment thing. in fiction you can throw in all kinds of unrealistic factors to make it more fun to write about, like aphro magic and transformations. the crazier shit i can write, the better. i don't rp for 100% realism, lol.