one of the above anons talking about having numb tits: it's definitely another story when i am writing kinks like breastplay. i'll often have my character be more receptive to sex things i'm not simply because it's fun to write. like penetration alone doesn't do it for me personally, but i know it works for some people, i've had partners who enjoy it, so i know it's a thing and i'll write my character getting off to it.

in a way it's kind of a wish fulfillment thing. in fiction you can throw in all kinds of unrealistic factors to make it more fun to write about, like aphro magic and transformations. the crazier shit i can write, the better. i don't rp for 100% realism, lol.