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(Anonymous) 2022-03-23 09:22 pm (UTC)(link)
ok like, you're not wrong but that has nothing to do with what i'm saying in my comment. having a bad experience does not exempt you from being able to communicate. people aren't mind-readers who can tell if you're not comfortable with them.

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-23 10:12 pm (UTC)(link)
pretty sure it's obvious when they dont tag you back, anon.

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-23 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
people don't tag each other back for a billion reasons. learn to communicate.

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-23 10:15 pm (UTC)(link)
it's pretty obvious from the replies in this thread that most people's stories come from saying they're opting out/don't want to rp with someone and that person throwing a fit or starting drama. hth.

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-23 10:47 pm (UTC)(link)
what did they do, type at you aggressively

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-23 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
+1 lmao how do the npc players somehow manage to make themselves sound just as if not more neurotic than the wols

if you don't want to tag someone just say as much, if they bitch and moan about it afterwards the only ass they're showing is their own so what does it matter

da +1

(Anonymous) 2022-03-24 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
I mean, if you say no, what would the wol do?

The most I can imagine is them throwing a hissy fit on plurk, which you can block them. If someone stops tagging you because of that then just look for another person to tag. If the wol proceeds to harrass you on PM or discord you can bring it to a mod or block them. Anon comms already hate WOLs so it's not like smearing you in anon threads really matter.

I don't have canonmates though so maybe this is only a problem for people who are in the same canon.

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2022-03-24 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
you know what, this is wankgate. shit or get off the pot, people. name these wols that throw a fit when an npc doesn't want to play with them or assumes they're in a ship or whatever. drop the deets.

+1

(Anonymous) 2022-03-24 06:07 am (UTC)(link)
npc player here and i'd like to know who to avoid on memes and the like.

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2022-03-24 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
unfortunately a lot of people in this hobby feel entitled to rp with anyone they want, even if that person doesn't want to rp with then. opting out is a great idea and does work often, but then on the other hand sometimes you opt out and have people who run to wankgate or start a full on vendetta against you for your crimes of not wanting to play with them. those are definitely the kinds of players being talked about in this thread.

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-24 02:19 am (UTC)(link)
who

name these "a lot of people"

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-24 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
shhh anon, let them have their strawman

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-24 03:56 am (UTC)(link)
how is that in any way a good excuse? hth most games require players to respect opt outs. if someone wishes to opt out of another player literally for any reason, and that player throws a fit and starts drama, there's an easy solution - screencap that shit and take it to be mods.

problem fucking solved, that'll be $2.

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-24 05:05 am (UTC)(link)
you can ignore people being mad on the internet hth