Re: ayrt

(Anonymous) 2022-03-30 07:53 am (UTC)(link)
if there's this dude named bob that starts showing up in my social circle's plurks and I really dislike bob's attitude and bob's opinions, "unfollow or mute" isn't a viable solution here.

am I going to message bob and be like "yo you don't know me but could you stop being the way that you are because it's like nails on a chalkboard to me"?

no, I'm just gonna block bob

Re: ayrt

(Anonymous) 2022-03-30 08:04 am (UTC)(link)
but what about how bob feels, anon

Re: ayrt

(Anonymous) 2022-03-30 08:37 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know bob, I don't like bob, bob doesn't know me. I don't owe it to bob to let myself get annoyed on the reg just because bob might be sensitive and have a meltdown because a stranger on the internet doesn't want to be friends.

you gotta decide when it's worth worrying about yourself sometimes anon. i'm not saying disregard everyone's feelings and only worry about numero uno always ever, just that on the hierarchy list it's okay to put yourself above a rando you don't care for.

Re: ayrt

(Anonymous) 2022-03-30 04:21 pm (UTC)(link)
anon, the comment you're replying to was in the context of someone just talking about something you didn't care about, not having a bad attitude or bad takes.