it should be more socially acceptable to go to mods of a game and be like 'this player plays bob in three other games and it's coming across as highlandering. please decline their app or reserve and let them know that it's someone else's turn to play that char in a game'.

of course, it'd be nice if people were more aware of how much they're playing and aware that we don't have fifty games to squat in anymore, so taking up more than two games with the same char is a dick move in general, but that's expecting too much.