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Ryan Gosling ([personal profile] ryanongosling) wrote in [community profile] wankgate2024-09-16 03:31 am

(Anonymous) 2024-12-22 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay, genuine question: Did you reach out to the mod in private to ask these things beforehand or did you just go straight to anon comms so you can go on about how irresponsible the mod is for being affected by real life and not being on top of things during a time they had struggles?

I don't know the mod, and I understand the frustration of delay and lack of communication, but I feel this was something that could have been asked in private in case things happened. Doubling down on how wrong someone is for something that is essentially not a big deal (delayed tdm) instead of just reminding them about it won't encourage anyone to want to mod even more.

(Anonymous) 2024-12-22 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
look, you keep trying to take the logic-driven troubleshooting approach at a time when the only humane response should be compassion.

idk the game or mod, for all i know you are right and this is the thousandth and first time they are late on mod tasks and failing to communicate. the thing is, now isn't the time to make a big deal out of this, which you are. read the room: they have had to cope with covid and a bereavement. they could be satan and you still shouldn't be dragging them through the mud right now. and before you say there was no way to know about their rl circumstances - you know now, and you are still doubling down.

just stop. exercise some self awareness. realize that whatever feedback you want to bring to them or anon comms about their modding can wait until january. you're being the equivalent of "but did you send the tag??????" right now.

(Anonymous) 2024-12-22 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
some real Karen-level concern trolling vibes all over this comment

(Anonymous) 2024-12-22 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
i forgive you. for defriending not communicating with your players.

Re: SINFLUENCERS

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
yeah, i feel like no one would have cared if they'd just tossed up a "dealing with rl things right now, mod stuff may be delayed" post/plurk. the fact that they didn't even do that was the tipping point on top of all of the other times they'd delayed stuff.

Re: SINFLUENCERS

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
itt: some normal anons + a bunch of people who have never had a loved one pass away and are physically incapable of empathy

sa

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
idfk why i said "a bunch" when it's like 2-3 people at most and the normal anons are in fact the majority

Re: DUPLICITY

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
Why can people in this game not accept that no one wants anyone bringing up the native kids in any form? It's a sex game with heavy amounts of noncon/dubcon and filth. Leave kids out of it.

Re: SINFLUENCERS

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 12:55 am (UTC)(link)
bro you have literally never had a single human friend

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
Really wish this community had cared to this degree with previous mods years back.

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
it's a few days before christmas and someone is having a tanty about a mod who is going through a nightmarish time irl not being fast enough with their dreamwidth role playing game

not the same as us ravenous wank hyenas wanting gsai to quit rp

Re: DUPLICITY

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 01:55 am (UTC)(link)
??? isn't that literally against the rules

Re: DUPLICITY

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 02:10 am (UTC)(link)
name and shame anon, this is gross and i want to avoid this person

Re: DUPLICITY

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
My guess is it's the Elle Woods mentioning donations for the city's orphanage on a network post. Is this donations for the kids of the sin guards liers murder regularly?

Re: SINFLUENCERS

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 03:06 am (UTC)(link)
i know it's kinda what we do here, but it seems like theres been more unhinged takes on 'accountability' on wg than usual lately

the boredom is getting to people

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 03:28 am (UTC)(link)
keep digging, chief

Re: SINFLUENCERS

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 03:32 am (UTC)(link)
lol good i'm glad you're "wary"

Re: MEME PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 05:42 am (UTC)(link)
I'm the fortanon poster. I was just shitposting.

Making it into an actual meme is too much work. I'd rather put that into something that gets love.

Re: DUPLICITY

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 05:45 am (UTC)(link)
probably on me for assuming it was anything worse than that .. if that is it, yawn. the orphanage is in the game info with clear guidelines of how players are allowed to interact with it and it all seems fine (and kind of ic for elle woods).

i personally am more comfortable pretending there are no kids around but ymmv i guess

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 06:26 am (UTC)(link)
there are more games than just jigoku and noctium who've had anon mods outed. many over nothing. there are also numerous other players who have been dragged on these comms during hellacious irl circumstances. not excusing it, just wish these standards had been in place other times than now.

Re: MEME PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 06:36 am (UTC)(link)
buddy you should know better than that, the vapid spammers of bakerstreet will take you seriously 100% of the time

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 06:41 am (UTC)(link)
don't complain about progress

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 07:17 am (UTC)(link)
honest question, what kind of reaction are you hoping for? if you felt this way at the time, i hope you made the point and that you are now glad that the tide of sentiment is turning. but 'whataboutism' isn't really necessary right now.

Re: ayrt

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 07:18 am (UTC)(link)
sorry - i'm not ayrt, mislabeled my comment.

Re: DUPLICITY

(Anonymous) 2024-12-23 02:28 pm (UTC)(link)
i feel the same personally. way too much public sex and kink for me to want to think about local kids running around.