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Ryan Gosling ([personal profile] ryanongosling) wrote in [community profile] wankgate2024-09-16 03:31 am

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 01:52 am (UTC)(link)
+1

i think futa is stupid as fuck.

so i just don’t play it. simple.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 01:54 am (UTC)(link)
if the person with the cock is a woman, yes

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
there are women who enjoy futa they just don’t go around posting underage animes to every meme in desperation to get someone to bite

Re: SMUT HORROR STORIES

(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
i hate seeing how many people this has happened to, because it is rather traumatizing. it happened to me where we discussed the characters sleeping together but didn't write it out, and then i woke up the next day to a bunch of ic and ooc drama on the game network about my character raping somebody. even though i tried to clear it up ooc and the other players had to delete the posts about it the damage was already done and i quit. the other player was going on about how traumatized THEY were for their character being "raped" and playing up the sob story and eventually even became mod of that game. i stopped playing in games for a long time after that and even when i started playing again i would not write characters that anyone would ship with just to protect myself. i've only just gotten into shipping again these last couple years and even then i'm super careful with only playing monogamous committed relationships so nothing gets twisted.

Re: WOULD YOU EVER PLAY HET

(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 03:45 am (UTC)(link)
yes when i say ota i mean it. my permissions pages usually have age preferences and dynamic preferences so those are my rules. i get tagged by ladies maybe once every three months though so its hardly regular.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 03:51 am (UTC)(link)
okay. i'm on wankgate to complain about it. why do you care that i complain about it.

sounds like the call to cope is coming from inside the house

Re: WOULD YOU EVER PLAY HET

(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 03:52 am (UTC)(link)
only the single castmate who i ship my character heterosexually with

otherwise, absolutely not

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 03:53 am (UTC)(link)
this is also a fetish but not one that's made it to dwrp yet! good job, anon! kywtp will be absolutely teeming with unfulfilled nullo requests by the end of the week

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 03:55 am (UTC)(link)
this is precisely why i hate futa players

Re: SMUT HORROR STORIES

(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 04:51 am (UTC)(link)
i had it happen to me with my character's established partner in game. really fucked me up for a while there especially since a lot of people around them at the time were saying i had no right to be upset about it. everyone who has heard about it since has confirmed it was in fact fucked up to suddenly retcon something as noncon and spring it on me though.

Re: WOULD YOU EVER PLAY HET

(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 05:06 am (UTC)(link)
all of my m/f is bi4bi by default

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 05:17 am (UTC)(link)
you hate men taking it up the ass because of futa players?

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 05:32 am (UTC)(link)
trans woman

Re: SMUT HORROR STORIES

(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 06:09 am (UTC)(link)
Not on dw, but another rp forum, had my partner try to brand my character without discussing it with me, as part of a larger scene that I felt uncomfortable dropping (and we were writing it in active time). I felt incredibly icky about it and super discomforted because it's one of my hard nos. They were apologetic when I finally talked to them about it and we retconned the scene but it really taught me the importance of being very upfront about hard nos.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 07:19 am (UTC)(link)
futa is specifically a hentai kink thing and not an identity thing, trans women don't deserve to be hit with that

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 07:26 am (UTC)(link)
you do know that intersex people exist, right

Re: WOULD YOU EVER PLAY HET

(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 08:07 am (UTC)(link)
I would and do play het with specific characters on my roster. When I put OTA on a character, I actually mean it.

Re: SMUT HORROR STORIES

(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 08:13 am (UTC)(link)
jesus. i've played characters that kind of needed extra reassurances before getting down to smut, but i can't imagine springing it on as noncon afterwards. don't blame you for dropping that cr at all, what the fuck.

Re: SMUT HORROR STORIES

(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 08:17 am (UTC)(link)
BUT WHO WAS PHONE??!!

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 09:21 am (UTC)(link)
da but im pretty sure the vast majority of intersex people dont actually have fantasy futa setups going on anon

which is why the term futa is used

because applying real terminology like intersex or trans woman to a fantasy fetish body setup where a chick has huge bazongas and a perfectly-functional dick+puss combo can make some people in those groups feel kind of weird

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 09:43 am (UTC)(link)
+1

better to use a fantasy term for a fantasy kink than to smear real-world people like that

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 09:56 am (UTC)(link)
nope. never heard of the oc, it was a canon character.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 09:56 am (UTC)(link)
i'm not the one sobbing to have it banned on the basis of 'i don't personally like it'

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 10:30 am (UTC)(link)
yes. but futas do not exist outside of hentai. hth

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-26 10:32 am (UTC)(link)
no one is actually trying to get you banned lol calm down and oil your beard