i hate seeing how many people this has happened to, because it is rather traumatizing. it happened to me where we discussed the characters sleeping together but didn't write it out, and then i woke up the next day to a bunch of ic and ooc drama on the game network about my character raping somebody. even though i tried to clear it up ooc and the other players had to delete the posts about it the damage was already done and i quit. the other player was going on about how traumatized THEY were for their character being "raped" and playing up the sob story and eventually even became mod of that game. i stopped playing in games for a long time after that and even when i started playing again i would not write characters that anyone would ship with just to protect myself. i've only just gotten into shipping again these last couple years and even then i'm super careful with only playing monogamous committed relationships so nothing gets twisted.