Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-08 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
She basically was pushing her kink on people who told her no, repeatedly. And Jess constantly kept not getting that no is a complete sentence and pestered for an explanation why they told her no.

That's one way someone can be a sexpest.

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-08 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
adding to that, she doesn't seem to grasp that it isn't having a particular kink that gets someone shunned from rp, it's trying to force that kink on others who don't want to participate in it.

she doesn't understand that kink requires consent from everyone involved. like, i've played out voyeurism/exhibitionism before and it was nbd because i threaded it with people who agreed to that. there's a big difference between that and just sticking it into a random unrelated thread with someone who never said they were okay with it.

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-19 08:06 pm (UTC)(link)
in her case wasn't it not even about the rp itself but about the fact that she wanted to tell people she was irl getting off to their threads? and even when people asked her kindly not to tell them that she insisted on doing it anyway?

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-19 08:14 pm (UTC)(link)
yes, and she wanted to tell people because her kink is exhibitionism and she got off on her RP partners knowing she was getting off. she didn't understand (or claimed not to understand) that there was a difference to playing out exhibitionism and voyeurism between RP characters, and asking other muns to be voyeurs to her sexuality OOC.

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-19 08:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Semi-related, but she posted interest in a FF14 dressing room recently and I just had to sigh because most of the players it's being advertised to have no idea about her history.

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-19 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)
any ff14 dressing room is doomed to be just a bunch of quirky wols not tagging each other anyway, so it's not like anybody's in danger of making friends

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-19 09:07 pm (UTC)(link)
sock up and post WG deets there

if anyone tells you to fuck off, just accuse them of being jess or one of her butt buddies

and if the mod bans you, name drop them

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-19 09:49 pm (UTC)(link)
i agree with this. nobody deserves jess.

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-20 02:51 pm (UTC)(link)
wasn't she also shunned from in-game xiv rp for being a creep

I remember somebody posted her lodestone profile and the character was only wearing the default underwear, which is what one does when using body mods to appear naked

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-20 03:18 pm (UTC)(link)
doubtful, there's a million and one neckbeards in any given mmo who'd be happy to rp consent-free exhibitionism with any kind of naked female character

if she got shunned it would've been from a smaller community like an rp or kink-focused guild, unless she actually got herself banned for harassment, which wouldn't be too surprising

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-20 03:48 pm (UTC)(link)
she's also argumentative, deliberately and inadvertently obtuse, suffers from terminal main character syndrome, and is just off-putting to have around in general

so it could have been a combination of things

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-20 04:11 pm (UTC)(link)
i went back to jog my memory and while a lot of the extra deets are floating around in various anon plurks, the gist of it was she got banned from a discord server for never shutting up about how she was sooo horny on balmung, the famously horny erp server

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-20 04:24 pm (UTC)(link)
lmao that sounds about right

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-21 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt is right, there are ffxiv communities that would absolutely welcome jess’ behavior and have no problems with how she acts.

but the problem is she doesn’t want to be part of those communities. she wants to be part of dwrp and thinks that people should accommodate her kinks, instead of the other way around.

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-20 04:23 pm (UTC)(link)
There was also RP related issues. She was banned from an ecats sex game because she kept pushing boundaries. The example I remember was she wanted to tag someone's TL and asked them if it was okay if her character looked like they just had sex. Like any other person would, the player thought she meant looking tussled or flushed, things like that. What they got was Jess' character walking up to them in public naked and with a boner

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-20 05:05 pm (UTC)(link)
I believe naked, with a boner, and covered in monster cum from the latest event.

can't recall if the monster sex was consensual

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-21 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
he was also actively jerking off

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-20 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
it must have been pretty terrible sex if her character still had a boner afterward

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-11-21 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
let’s not also forgot what kicked it off: her deciding that akechi goro is canonly half asian, because he has curly brown hair.