Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2025-01-17 04:57 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt but also a volunteer. volunteer staff is still technically staff yeah. but kit constantly drops into people's plurks to act like the authority on whatever topic is being discussed, so i can't blame anybody for being annoyed by it. she can come off as really condescending but i think it's a spectrum thing and not intentional.

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2025-01-17 05:54 am (UTC)(link)
yeah have any of you told her it's offputting or seems condescending because a significant minority of dwrp are self-loathing autistics and sometimes neurodivergent people don't know something is an issue or comes off a certain way but if you tell them they will be horrified and stop.

the answer is still communication and assuming people who are in the same hobby as you are coming from a place of good faith instead of having an attitude or an ego.

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2025-01-17 06:06 am (UTC)(link)
saw that happen in a mutual's plurk about their polyship. i don't think kit even had cr with any of the characters, but i guess as the resident poly expert she felt the need to chime in and magnanimously grant her approval over the handling of a situation? it was so odd.

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2025-01-17 06:10 am (UTC)(link)
is this a joke about bitch eating crackers or do you have the wrong kit

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2025-01-17 06:17 am (UTC)(link)
skeletone kit and something that actually happened. wasn't the first time i've seen her awkwardly jump into conversations that have nothing to do with her like that it was just one of the weirder occurrences of it.

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2025-01-17 06:20 am (UTC)(link)
that sounds textbook spectrum thing and like someone who was taught this is how to be a good friend