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252: imagine all the tags sitting neglected in inboxes for this

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lol living the dream

think the best part was my husband going 'guess i'm gay now' when i came out

aw

cute

the amount of people i used to play yaoi with when we were both teenage girls only for 20 years later to no longer have either of those be true, well...

which is why when people say stuff like the smut you like to rp doesn't hint at your sexuality at all!!!

are you sure about that

the smut you rp genuinely has nothing to do with your personal gender preference in irl partners. it's a creative hobby about fictional fantasy relationships for the most part. if you can't figure that boundary out, idk what to tell u.

for you maybe

for many people fictional fantasy relationships helped them figure out what they're actually into rl

you =/= everyone else

you're replying to a thread where someone said writing yaoi in that 'creative hobby' made them realize they're a gay man

reading comprehension in shambles in the reading comprehension hobby

it weirds me out when people assume it does just because they project enough that the smut they write says something about their personal preferences. it ends up making me feel gross playing with anyone like that because i can't trust them not to be keeping ooc boundaries.

i think you are making a mountain out of a molehill here. like yeah for some people this is nothing but an enjoyable hobby where they get to explore fictional setting. for some others it's lead to self-discovery, sometimes accidentally, sometimes on purpose. neither are a bad thing, one is not better than the other and neither should be treated like a moral crime

as long as someone is not treating you as their therapist what harm does it cause you? unless they tell you point blank our thread led me to discover i'm a [insert sexuality/gender here] how would you know?

i think it's a bit silly to pretend there's no correlation whatsoever when in this thread someone stated they transitioned thanks to rp. the higher than statistical norm of lgbt people we got running around.

it feels like a needless overcorrection because god forbid fiction help people discover some things about their reality. when fiction has been used as a tool to comment about reality since we invented language.

people here acting like someone seeing themselves reflected in some of these scenes as projection is so... i think you would all be so much happier in rp if you stopped being so paranoid about this stuff. because whether you like it or not it's happening. people are just not telling you about it because why would they when you all act like this.

tl;dr: for some people? it does say something about their personal preferences. for some others? it doesn't. experiences are not universal.

if someone assumes it always says something, though, i want nothing to do with them. it says a lot about how they treat rp and other rpers and it's ALWAYS a sign they over project and will over invest. like that's just a proven thing.

i insert $3 and hit the button on the fictional dick vending machine. the empty coils turn meaninglessly. enraged, my fingers automatically typing '911' on my phone, i examine the full rows i did not select. i have been asking the manager to stock the strong male character i'm married to on the astral plane for months, and there he is:

m/m for shippy stuff

"He doesn't even really like his best friend!" i scream to no one in particular as the rain begins to fall. a man putting forty cakes into a dumpster looks at me sympathetically, but i don't want his dick, even if he has two. i want to be heard. i want to be loved. i want the manager to listen to me.

spitefully, i order f/f instead. some hapless fool drops a starter into the bottom of the machine as i walk away, adjusting the uncomfortable fit of my custom MCU onesie.

i laughed twice

and then oddeyes tags you

you're right, the overwhelming popularity of monsterfucker games definitely doesn't reflect any actual sexual fantasies or favorite porn kinks on the parts of players. everybody is playing out knotting and oviposition to explore the character ramifications.

uh-huh.

would you take double dragon dicks irl

be honest

study: 90% of barbie-smashers are gay men claiming not to be gay men who would prefer to talk breathlessly about double dragon dicks in multiple conversations per day than actually have sex of any kind, harvard anthropologists find. also, they're all bottoms

as an expert and a participant in this field of research, i have no reason to suspect that this data has been fabricated in any way

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most people don't want to be sexually assaulted, either, that doesn't mean rape fantasies aren't the most popular genre of porn for afab people

"you don't want it to be you IRL" =/= "You're not into it/don't find it hot"

this is literally the same argument people use to defend people who are into loli and shota

'BuT iT's NoT rEaL!?!'

are you lost

given i've been dp'd in real life yeah long as they can actually fit

liar

no one on wg has had sex, let alone two sex at the same time

i mean i write het sometimes and ive got no interest in participating in m/f irl so yea

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