ngl, there are people that 'you finding me attractive is problematic', but it's like a catch 22 problem. a 25+ year old woman who looks 12 is supposed to what, only date 12 year old boys? Only date pedos? Never date? Women (and men) like that have to constantly be on guard and are probably paranoid that 'anyone interested in me is interested in me for the wrong reasons' because they're basing it all on looks. And realistically, they aren't entirely wrong. But they're in a lose-lose scenario and I feel genuinely bad for them.
That said, someone sleeping with a legal adult well past the age of majority who also happens to look pubescent isn't a pedo. But they will definitely be judged for it. They did an svu episode on a real world incident over it. Recently, a case keeps popping up on my scrolling fb feeds in those dumb group meme things where a 26 year old is talking about the pitfalls in dating when she looks 12.
so to chisel that down to 'my character has no boobies, so that makes you a pedo if you like her' is gross. plenty of grown adults who look like grown adults in the face just don't have big tatas.
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That said, someone sleeping with a legal adult well past the age of majority who also happens to look pubescent isn't a pedo. But they will definitely be judged for it. They did an svu episode on a real world incident over it. Recently, a case keeps popping up on my scrolling fb feeds in those dumb group meme things where a 26 year old is talking about the pitfalls in dating when she looks 12.
so to chisel that down to 'my character has no boobies, so that makes you a pedo if you like her' is gross. plenty of grown adults who look like grown adults in the face just don't have big tatas.