i don't know, but she has sensitive information listed there. i realize it's publicly viewable on her personal journal, and no one can help that, but this is just not the kind of data she will want to know has made the rounds of an anon com when she's in a better state of mind. feels like witnessing a breakdown.
Yeah. I was one of the people who responded ("Holy shit. Welp.") and it alarmed me that what appeared to be her phone number was visible in one of the pics. I didn't want to draw attention to it; I just want her to get better.
this is my friend. my friend says and does a lot of dumb shit when she gets upset or worked up, but that doesn't make her a bad person. this has been tearing her up for a whole damn week and my friend is already in a very fragile state of mind and she's been trying very hard to get help and she doesn't have the funds or the info. look, she's already been upset enough as it is with her living situation, and i think it's unfair to keep this up when she already contacted that mun to begin with and the whole issue has been resolved. you're talking about her personal information on there even before she made the mistake of commenting on there logged in.
for fuck sakes, just leave her alone. there's a lot of people really worried about her and you're not helping the matter. leave my friend alone, she's struggling with too much right now.
"leave my friend alone, she's soooo like fragile even when she threw a tantrum on an innocent person, attempted to manipulate people with sob stories AMD dropped super personal info in hopes to make herself look like a victim"
i dont want to look at the thread but i know this mun is responsible for lack of communication and wasn't thinking clearly but it is very unfair to keep this thread going. you're not helping panty-mun from Z, either, for that matter. not only that, that be some stupid grudge wank that has nothing to do with the matter. for something so simple as a miscommunication it could have been solved with simple instant messaging. she felt like she was obligated to prove that she was serious, it was stupid, it needs to just die out now. methinks this could have been rectified if ppl just talked to her rather than just air out frustrations here. kind of fucked.
methinks this could have been rectified if ppl just talked to her rather than just air out frustrations
sort of like how this could have all been avoided if she just talked to the panty-mun instead of airing out her frustrations on plurk?
hmm
sorry, natalie has no issue bullying and harassing other people. she deserves to be called out on it. maybe she'll learn to stop being so nasty and stop talking over top of (other) survivors and minorities and acting like she's the be-all-end-all! maybe instead of throwing her a pity party, you could actually help her by not enabling her gross behavior.
I think it's funny that everyone keeps bringing up that this is hurting Panty-mun as well. It's really not; everyone realizes it was an IC joke for her to make, and a related one to the post at that. Actually, everyone thinks pretty highly of her, based on the reactions I've seen to her response to Natalie.
I also have no idea what you're referring to as stupid grudge wank. Everything that has been mentioned has been current and either was brought up by Natalie herself or a comment on her characterization. Neither of which count as grudgewank.
I don't want to think you're Natalie, because I want to think she'd have enough sense to stay the fuck away from this if she has been panicking about it for a week, but the fact that she's thrown herself a pity party, made it public, and linked it in both her tumblr and her plurk profile speaks pretty highly for her lack of sense. In addition to the fact that both you and she seem to think that this whole thing is solely a result of a lack of communication with Panty-mun. It's not. It goes a lot deeper than that one incident and is 99% about Natalie's behavior in general.
The thread was just about dead and about to be normal Wankgate one-post-wonder material until she came in and posted, trying to make everyone feel sorry for her. She may not have been thinking clearly, and that is exactly why everyone is reacting. The best thing she can do, and that you can do as a friend, is keep her off of this site. Get her to block it, as well as to take down that stupid post. It's doing much more harm than good, and if she removes it and stays quiet it will all blow over as all wank does.
Just as a bonus, most people didn't want to air frustrations directly to her for fear of causing this exact sort of breakdown. So maybe it would've helped by bringing this all out to light sooner, but it probably wouldn't have helped her.
I'm not trying to help Panty-mun. I'm not trying to help Natalie. I'm not trying to help anyone. You might have misinterpreted my deletion of those threads as trying to help her, but all I was doing was trying to cover my own ass. I honestly don't give a shit about any of the players or games involved. The only reason I delete shit in this comm is because it's either off topic or could get us in trouble with DW.
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(Anonymous) 2013-01-09 01:04 pm (UTC)(link)delete it for her own sake. she clearly doesn't have her bearings about her right now, and it's just not something that belongs on wg.
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(Anonymous) 2013-01-09 08:08 pm (UTC)(link)this is my friend. my friend says and does a lot of dumb shit when she gets upset or worked up, but that doesn't make her a bad person. this has been tearing her up for a whole damn week and my friend is already in a very fragile state of mind and she's been trying very hard to get help and she doesn't have the funds or the info. look, she's already been upset enough as it is with her living situation, and i think it's unfair to keep this up when she already contacted that mun to begin with and the whole issue has been resolved. you're talking about her personal information on there even before she made the mistake of commenting on there logged in.
for fuck sakes, just leave her alone. there's a lot of people really worried about her and you're not helping the matter. leave my friend alone, she's struggling with too much right now.
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(Anonymous) 2013-01-09 09:32 pm (UTC)(link)i fixed that for you.
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(Anonymous) 2013-01-09 09:45 pm (UTC)(link)that's what you mean, amirite
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(Anonymous) 2013-01-10 02:46 am (UTC)(link)it's not kara
on a scale of 1-paranoid how 10 are you right now
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i dont want to look at the thread but i know this mun is responsible for lack of communication and wasn't thinking clearly but it is very unfair to keep this thread going. you're not helping panty-mun from Z, either, for that matter. not only that, that be some stupid grudge wank that has nothing to do with the matter. for something so simple as a miscommunication it could have been solved with simple instant messaging. she felt like she was obligated to prove that she was serious, it was stupid, it needs to just die out now. methinks this could have been rectified if ppl just talked to her rather than just air out frustrations here. kind of fucked.
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(Anonymous) 2013-01-09 09:24 pm (UTC)(link)sort of like how this could have all been avoided if she just talked to the panty-mun instead of airing out her frustrations on plurk?
hmm
sorry, natalie has no issue bullying and harassing other people. she deserves to be called out on it. maybe she'll learn to stop being so nasty and stop talking over top of (other) survivors and minorities and acting like she's the be-all-end-all! maybe instead of throwing her a pity party, you could actually help her by not enabling her gross behavior.
stop patting her ass.
this goes for the anon above, too.
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(Anonymous) 2013-01-09 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)I also have no idea what you're referring to as stupid grudge wank. Everything that has been mentioned has been current and either was brought up by Natalie herself or a comment on her characterization. Neither of which count as grudgewank.
I don't want to think you're Natalie, because I want to think she'd have enough sense to stay the fuck away from this if she has been panicking about it for a week, but the fact that she's thrown herself a pity party, made it public, and linked it in both her tumblr and her plurk profile speaks pretty highly for her lack of sense. In addition to the fact that both you and she seem to think that this whole thing is solely a result of a lack of communication with Panty-mun. It's not. It goes a lot deeper than that one incident and is 99% about Natalie's behavior in general.
The thread was just about dead and about to be normal Wankgate one-post-wonder material until she came in and posted, trying to make everyone feel sorry for her. She may not have been thinking clearly, and that is exactly why everyone is reacting. The best thing she can do, and that you can do as a friend, is keep her off of this site. Get her to block it, as well as to take down that stupid post. It's doing much more harm than good, and if she removes it and stays quiet it will all blow over as all wank does.
Just as a bonus, most people didn't want to air frustrations directly to her for fear of causing this exact sort of breakdown. So maybe it would've helped by bringing this all out to light sooner, but it probably wouldn't have helped her.
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