Considering the timing, it's probably a combination of SP, her Precious Playground, on top of the RL issues. Especially given the fit she pitched when endgame was announced months ago.
Not shitstirring, whiteknight. Admit it: Ciara is extremely dependent on SP and she has had complete emotional breakdowns over the closing of this game already.
What makes you think I'm doing that? She made a plurk that was blatantly, "Weh weh, I'm being PA about something" within minutes of the SP endgame plot post being plurked. It's not that hard to make the connection.
Actually if you were a good friend to her and actually talked to her aside from stalking her plurk to run to wankgate and complain about her the instant she shows a bit of emotion about something, you'd know her offline life is actually pretty stressful right now.
Yes, she's been sad about SP before, but this isn't about it, actually. There is a huge difference between being "PA" and "I'm so stressed out rn and cant give details to my entire plurk of 100 plus people".
Talking to her proves fruitless unless you're patting her ass. She's had literal emotional breakdowns and talked about how her life has no meaning without SP and Phancyhive, about how she's literally sick and wants to skip work because of roleplay. That's more than sad.
You're obviously one of her butt brigade if you don't realize SP's closing is probably exacerbating her stressful RL.
Funny thing: I actually give a shit about her. I'm just not entirely stupid that a PA plurk about "weh weh there's something wrong" right after the SP endgame plot post goes up is entirely about her offline life because the coincidence is TOO perfect, but I also know talking to her won't do a damn thing. No amount of crit has ever helped her, no amount of sound advice has ever been taken, etc. But obviously, I'm only on her plurk for WG. Just like you're on here for more than patting her ass.
"I do care about her, that's why I came to this anonymous wanking community and namedropped her after she made a friend-locked plurk talking about how stressed she was with life in general."
I really think if you think this is a good way to help or care for someone, you need to lean back and take another look there, anon. It sounds to me like you two need to go your separate ways if you think this is "giving a shit". This is normally the point of a relationship where someone needs to break off, if they see they're getting irritated to this extent. If you've given up on trying to communicate your frustration personally with her and what she does, I think you need to get away from her.
It's only communication if the other party is open to it, JSYK.
Ciara has brought this on herself by showing time and again to NOT be open to communication. She's a toxic mess and too emotionally invested in her characters, but she's never going to listen and her so-called friends, of which I assume you are one, are only enabling this behavior.
Okay, wrong word choice maybe, but like I said, if you're coming here dropping some bait for some anons to tear a hole into her, I personally cannot see for the life of me how that shows you're a friend, or how it shows you "give a shit about her".
I'm not in SP so I don't know about what posts went up or whatever, I'm just someone who knows whats going on with her offline and trying to sort out that - hey. This isn't all about SP.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-07 09:00 am (UTC)(link)Keep whiteknighting her.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-07 12:09 pm (UTC)(link)Yes, she's been sad about SP before, but this isn't about it, actually. There is a huge difference between being "PA" and "I'm so stressed out rn and cant give details to my entire plurk of 100 plus people".
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-07 05:12 pm (UTC)(link)You're obviously one of her butt brigade if you don't realize SP's closing is probably exacerbating her stressful RL.
Funny thing: I actually give a shit about her. I'm just not entirely stupid that a PA plurk about "weh weh there's something wrong" right after the SP endgame plot post goes up is entirely about her offline life because the coincidence is TOO perfect, but I also know talking to her won't do a damn thing. No amount of crit has ever helped her, no amount of sound advice has ever been taken, etc. But obviously, I'm only on her plurk for WG. Just like you're on here for more than patting her ass.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-07 05:32 pm (UTC)(link)I really think if you think this is a good way to help or care for someone, you need to lean back and take another look there, anon. It sounds to me like you two need to go your separate ways if you think this is "giving a shit". This is normally the point of a relationship where someone needs to break off, if they see they're getting irritated to this extent. If you've given up on trying to communicate your frustration personally with her and what she does, I think you need to get away from her.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-07 06:33 pm (UTC)(link)Ciara has brought this on herself by showing time and again to NOT be open to communication. She's a toxic mess and too emotionally invested in her characters, but she's never going to listen and her so-called friends, of which I assume you are one, are only enabling this behavior.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-07 06:42 pm (UTC)(link)I'm not in SP so I don't know about what posts went up or whatever, I'm just someone who knows whats going on with her offline and trying to sort out that - hey. This isn't all about SP.