I'm laughing so hard at this whole thread. Never before have I seen so much investment over a shitty player dropping because someone told them they were shitty.
I'm pretty sure she'd rather that people quit grudgewanking her, imo. She could have handled this in a much less reactionary way (taking it to the mods privately would have been a good start), but that doesn't make it any less of a dick move to PM someone like that.
maybe it's my own personal experience with irl stuff that's making that bug me, but 'bringing it on herself' is a pretty crappy expression. she may be a shitty player or person, but people can choose not to be assholes in reaction to her. the best response to someone like that is to just ignore them, in game and ooc.
People who are assholes are going to receive assholeish behavior from others especially over the internet. Maybe this will make sure realize she needs to change her behavior.
oh i don't know........ her constantly behavior that got her these types of haters in the first place? have you even been paying attention? don't give me that "WELL GIVE HER A CHANCE" bullshit because i have personally given her several and she has repeated her behavior ten times over.
so yeah sorry i'm fucking done and i'm laughing all the while at everyone being butthurt that someone was mean to her because boo hoo maybe she should stop being an asshole then.
im honestly confused by what you are trying to say here. so shes supposed to change and not be an asshole, but she shouldn't app anywhere or do anything to SHOW shes not an asshole?
its not like theres a magical certification test that issues you a "not an asshole" license. At some point she has to be allowed to get to the point of actually being in the game before being written off as unchanged.
she basically said IN HER INTRO POST (which is deleted now) that she didn't have time for the game. and yet she apped anyway. the crit she received after posting that basically told her to not app in KNOWING she had no time to play the character.
... you don't seem to understand the difference between valid crit and invalid crit, do you?
with regards to the RP environment, crit that is designed with the purposes of just insulting another person isn't valid crit, regardless of how true it may be. there are ways to settle your differences with a person that don't involve shit like that which inevitably creates threads like this.
you do the rp community at large a favor when you keep your vitriol to the circles that give a fuck.
It's not really a big deal. Just roll your eyes and move on with your life. If it happens a second time maybe but it was probably just a stupid troll or grudgewank. The fact that she made a huge ass deal about it is the real issue here.
But this is DWRP and everyone is going to keep crying "HARASSMENT OMG!!!!!!" because it makes them feel better.
but she didn't? i don't know if she did on plurk or not, but all she did was cite the reason she left. granted it was a little unnecessary, but given that someone pmd her in the first place with that, i think it evens out.
it's not like she made some grandiose ooc post about how she was leaving because she wasn't wanted or anything. this thread is the only deal being made about it.
my advice to you, asgardians, if you don't want your game to look bad on wankgate:
1) don't comment to wankgate
2) if you have to comment to wankgate, don't out yourself as a member of the game
because as you can clearly see people here will take any little thing and blow it up to ridiculous proportions, and take neutral, thought-out comments and twist their words around. wankgate is just not a place where you can win.
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 05:48 am (UTC)(link)so yeah sorry i'm fucking done and i'm laughing all the while at everyone being butthurt that someone was mean to her because boo hoo maybe she should stop being an asshole then.
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 05:53 am (UTC)(link)its not like theres a magical certification test that issues you a "not an asshole" license. At some point she has to be allowed to get to the point of actually being in the game before being written off as unchanged.
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 06:03 am (UTC)(link)good luck to her
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 07:21 pm (UTC)(link)da
(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 10:31 pm (UTC)(link)that's when it just became dick.
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-21 04:48 am (UTC)(link)dda
(Anonymous) 2013-10-21 06:28 am (UTC)(link)with regards to the RP environment, crit that is designed with the purposes of just insulting another person isn't valid crit, regardless of how true it may be. there are ways to settle your differences with a person that don't involve shit like that which inevitably creates threads like this.
you do the rp community at large a favor when you keep your vitriol to the circles that give a fuck.
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 02:25 am (UTC)(link)Couldn't give a shit about the player, but no matter how you twist that it's just shitstirring and harassment.
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 04:11 am (UTC)(link)But this is DWRP and everyone is going to keep crying "HARASSMENT OMG!!!!!!" because it makes them feel better.
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 04:28 am (UTC)(link)it's not like she made some grandiose ooc post about how she was leaving because she wasn't wanted or anything. this thread is the only deal being made about it.
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-22 03:42 pm (UTC)(link)1) don't comment to wankgate
2) if you have to comment to wankgate, don't out yourself as a member of the game
because as you can clearly see people here will take any little thing and blow it up to ridiculous proportions, and take neutral, thought-out comments and twist their words around. wankgate is just not a place where you can win.
let it go, my fellow dwrpers.