hon I've gone out sans makeup, lots of zits, greasy hair, pale as fuck because I was sick, only wandered around in sweat pants and holey t-shirt and still got hit on by three people in the span of an hour
the problem isn't your looks it's you
if you smile, if you are polite, if you are approachable, and if you feel sexy and confident (or just believably act like it) you will usually get hit on because people will be drawn to you
the only time looks have changed behavior that i've noticed have been on the extreme ends of societal standards of beauty
vaguely off topic but I've noticed I get hit on/checked out more by guys when it's that time of the month. I have no idea why because I feel like shit and I'm thinking more about where my next salty/chocolate snack is going to come from than about anything sexy but I swear they can sense it and are drawn to it. My girl friends and I joke about it so I'm not complaining.
that's actually pretty cool. Thanks, nonnie. And hey, not going to complain if I get a little self-esteem boost on days when I'm feeling particularly ugh.
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(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 07:32 am (UTC)(link)the problem isn't your looks it's you
if you smile, if you are polite, if you are approachable, and if you feel sexy and confident (or just believably act like it) you will usually get hit on because people will be drawn to you
the only time looks have changed behavior that i've noticed have been on the extreme ends of societal standards of beauty
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(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 09:46 am (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 07:11 pm (UTC)(link)and I am sorry about assuming that
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(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 07:25 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/12/12/fertility-women-attractiveness-study_n_2286537.html
http://beheco.oxfordjournals.org/content/15/4/579.full
http://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/health-and-fitness/men-can-detect-when-women-are-ovulating/article4302462/
it's those crazy hormones, anon!
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the bears can smell the menstruation!!!!
ayrt
(Anonymous) 2014-07-01 07:05 pm (UTC)(link)