Re: da

(Anonymous) 2015-03-30 07:25 am (UTC)(link)
I'd put more stock into this if the GnD thing wasn't such old irrelevant wank. I haven't had a problem with her yet and she hasn't done anything to garner my attention as far as annoyances go. This is still grudgewank with or without deets.

Chill, playerbase.

da

(Anonymous) 2015-03-31 06:00 am (UTC)(link)
my issue stands more from how she doesn't seem to have changed from then. she's normally unpleasant and abrasive but during the whole voting process she was even worse and pretty much talking shit and treating anyone who didn't want to go through an endgame as if they were mentally challenged. she's left a really sour taste in my mouth, especially since she likes portraying herself as one of the victims during the whole incident.

honestly it wouldn't be that big of a deal if she had apologized or genuinely seemed to have changed, but the last time she showed her face on wankgate she was her usual 2edgy2cool2care self.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2015-03-31 06:10 am (UTC)(link)
Hiding behind anonymity does not make it easy for someone to apologize or clear the air over an old grudge.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2015-03-31 06:30 am (UTC)(link)
It's not about doing what's easy, it's about doing what's right.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2015-03-31 06:39 am (UTC)(link)
Considering she's made many efforts to talk to people from GnD about the situation and make amends, maybe it's time for the person(s) with four year old grudgewank to approach her about it? "What's right" is hard to accomplish when these people, saying it again, are hiding behind anonymity and cannot be approached.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2015-03-31 06:48 am (UTC)(link)
I'd be more inclined to sympathize with this sentiment if we weren't talking about the same person who sometimes comes to wankgate logged in.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2015-03-31 06:59 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know anything about that. I just know this GnD stuff is kind of old and if coming here logged in is her only offense then that is mostly stupid and not so much wank worthy.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-31 08:05 am (UTC)(link)
i don't want to deal with her. i had enough during GnD and i didn't even realize that it was four years ago. i do remember that she was absolutely nasty to me and my friends.

i don't care if she wants to make amends now, she fucked up and i don't want anything to do with her.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-31 08:14 am (UTC)(link)
Then the whole "honestly it wouldn't be that big of a deal if she had apologized" was pointless to suggest if it would still continue to be a big deal to you and you just have to deal with her being around I guess.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-31 09:36 am (UTC)(link)
as far as i'm aware of, she has never publicly said anything anywhere about the whole situation and i have no reason to believe that she's changed from what i have seen of her. why am i supposed to be the one to reach out to someone who's been nothing but an absolute shitheel to everyone i had known at the time?

i put in my two cents as to why people would still dislike her and bring up her GnD past. your friend fucked up by being an absolute dick so don't be surprised when people remember her as an asshole when she gets brought up.

you'll just have deal with that i guess.

+1

(Anonymous) 2015-03-31 09:49 am (UTC)(link)

(Anonymous) 2015-04-01 06:09 am (UTC)(link)
Anon I'm going to re-quote that what you got from AYRT and add in the bit that you clipped off:
honestly it wouldn't be that big of a deal if she had apologized or genuinely seemed to have changed

dda

(Anonymous) 2015-03-31 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
former GnD player here. i call bullshit on this. idgaf about grudgewank but claiming she's tried to make amends is a lie.