i said a lot of horrible and stupid shit in my late teens/early twenties because i was an ignorant closeted asshole with not much exposure to the lgbt community. it happens. people make mistakes. opinions change.
while i agree it's definitely going to alienate somebody no matter how you do it, i think it's a disservice to the story.
it also smacks very much of the myspace-era of teen girls who were obsessed with joker/harley in a very bonnie and clyde way because of their gross 30+ juggalo boyfriend and how they would defend the ship to the very end due to joker loving harley ~underneath it all really guys
not anymore. for a while they were delayed for a few hours but now i haven't gotten anything in a little over a day and i've been tagged in that time period.
riley tolerated white people who kissed her ass and listened to everything she said. anyway, i don't remember what series of events lead to this, but iirc it was a joke referencing the phrase "showing your ass". apparently tally thought that a good way to laugh at people who show their ass figuratively was to show her ass literally.
the point according to the original canon, sure. but this isn't the original canon, so it has a different point. it's not like the comics suddenly had him change personality for no reason -- this is a new harley and a new joker, and they decided this time they wanted to tell the story differently.
it was the one she hoped for. you can love someone and still want them to be a better version of themselves. just like she imagined herself as a better version of herself.
like someone else mentioned in this thread, i think that really depends. this is a different version of a story. it's adapting it to suit to a later audience and more comfortable societal behaviors. it can still be a fucked up relationship, but it doesn't have to be abusive. wasn't there freaking out about how a poster showing mystique being strangled promoted violence against women? i know, i know, rl =/= fantasy, but it's a new twist to a story that adds something more to it.
some might like it. others will probably hate it. just like when they change any aspect of a character that has an already firmly established role. aquaman's not white and blue eyed and blond? no one bats an eye. joker has feelings (albeit still fucked up and twisted and weird feelings) for harley and that's the dealbreaker? they've rebooted and twisted dc stories so many times, it's really impossible to claim any one line as 'the real version'. this joker is as different as all the others, and at least we get a harley this time. i'm happy with it. sorry that you're not.
10 years ago I was parroting my mother's homophobic and transphobic bs while also furiously burying my own attraction to women. Last night my mother (the only member of my family who knows I'm bi) and I had a discussion about how the NC bathroom law is oppression. People can change their opinions over time, and 10 years is a lot of time.
alphie for the nazi salute, sending homestuck character orgasm impressions to a minor, and just generally being a wreck of a human being
tally for being in the same league as alphie. back in the day she briefly became obsessed with one of my ocs she wanted to ship with theta. the mods of that game ended up pming me asking if i was comfortable with tally because she cried to the mods about how she didn't feel welcome and apparently mentioned me and my character a lot. naturally i said fuck no and they told her to chill her tits. i wasn't even against the ship, i was just a slowass tagger.
does anyone remember hedge? the guy who kept reminding everyone how gay he was whenever he said stupid shit and got wanked on for it? (iirc telling people to kill themselves)
spandy for literally everything they did. modding the rapehouse, cramming matt down everyone's throats, constantly being awkward in coa, the works. watching spandy's antics was like watching a house burn down.
renne wank was like dropping acid. i can't believe that shit actually happened. (still love WHOREMONGERS though)
wank was just way more fun back then. wankers were weird and annoying but harmless, for the most part. now we've got bismunth and communism stans.
oh yeah, and one of Amber's circle stole one of my ocs wholesale once, but that wasn't really wanky so much as weird and kind of flattering. same pb, same personality, everything, they just slapped her into one of their verses.
I get a response like this every time I post about how sad I get when people regurgitate Gender Studies 101 As Watered Down By Tumblr. I'm used to it, honestly. Thanks for the defense, though
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