Those aren't passive aggressive and I've only ever seen and used the first two in ways that actually mean what they say
Someone who says they're sorry a tag is late means that they're actually sorry a tag is late they're not trying to make a jibe at you
And the second one? People have to ask that often when they play villains and or use weird fonts and yeah sometimes the answer is no a person is not okay with it and that is fine
That's why that question is there in the first place, it's not an indirect attack on you
Seriously, you can be bugged by these things but they aren't PA
I admit I was a bit kneejerk about it to start with, but I said 'passive aggressive' because the last three examples I've had of this were (both of them the first two examples). It turned into damn I just hate comment headers altogether and I got off topic a little bit. I also got into implying that they're never used legitimately, which of course they are, I've used them that way myself. So that's not what I meant at all.
If I say I hate yellow flowers, I mean I hate yellow flowers. I hate it when headers are used in an evasive, aggressive manner. I just made it sound like I hated all comment headers. Sorry about that.
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-11 09:54 pm (UTC)(link)Someone who says they're sorry a tag is late means that they're actually sorry a tag is late they're not trying to make a jibe at you
And the second one? People have to ask that often when they play villains and or use weird fonts and yeah sometimes the answer is no a person is not okay with it and that is fine
That's why that question is there in the first place, it's not an indirect attack on you
Seriously, you can be bugged by these things but they aren't PA
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-11 10:38 pm (UTC)(link)If I say I hate yellow flowers, I mean I hate yellow flowers. I hate it when headers are used in an evasive, aggressive manner. I just made it sound like I hated all comment headers. Sorry about that.