ayrt

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 07:05 am (UTC)(link)
mine too! the numb thing, that is. i never had much sensation in them before the reduction, and post one of them is completely fucked up in the sensory department and my nipple feels like it's my upper chest while my other nipple just hurts to touch. i think i'm at a dd or so now (i haven't been properly sized since the operation and it was almost two decades ago) but what i'm down to i can buy shirts that don't make me look like a balloon and cheap sports bras at the dollar store that i can put two on if i need to and they don't kill my shoulders.

i support anyone that wants a reduction for any reason. at this point, i'm tempted to look at getting another one, because i feel like they're just in the way. though, tbh, i've always felt oddly disconnected from my boobs, and i think that's a big boob thing. because it's you and 'the boobs', and the way people talk/react to them make it seem like its own entity. i'd be perfectly happy as an a cup, tbh.

Re: MEME PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 07:33 am (UTC)(link)
ugh i hate supernatural and i especially hate sam

ayrt (and cw for TMI ig)

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 08:09 am (UTC)(link)
i can't remember if it got any better or worse after my surgery. i just remembered feeling kind of sad because one of my exes really liked breastplay but when she tried to return the favor it just didn't do anything for me and actually kind of hurt. i can't even imagine what it would be like if i ever got pregnant and my hormones were to change in that department.

sometimes i wonder if my teenage "growth spurt" in that area fucked up my nerves or something, but i never really looked into it. i assumed it was one of those "not for me" things, but i'm not so sure now.

i do mega sympathize with others who suffer the big titty problem, because there's this weird stigma if you're not "grateful" when you express interest in a reduction. i hope you're able to get yours down to a comfortable size as well. it's been over a decade since my surgery and i sometimes consider it myself.

also as a lesbian i can safely say i did not appreciate the amount of unwanted male attention my boobs got me.

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 08:23 am (UTC)(link)
i've always said that because my boobs grew so quickly, i think that's why they were so insensitive. i went from an a to a b to a c and then dd in a matter of a year. i was a dd from 14 on and they got up to an eee before i got pregnant. i've always thought that first year and the spurt from flat as a board to camel humps on my chest had my nerves unable to keep up with the spurt. i've known other larger breasted women who've had pretty high sensitivity in their breasts, but i just never got it.

i also feel you on the 'partner likes x and when they try to reciprocate, it just doesn't tickle my pickle' scene. it's a nice thought and i know where they're coming from, but i'd prefer they didn't.

Re: LETTERS YOU'LL NEVER SEND

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 01:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Dear mods,

Why did you give such a significant plot to someone who is one of the biggest flakes in the game and has a history of being bailing and/or being unable to follow through? You couldn’t have chosen a more unreliable player.

Re: LETTERS YOU'LL NEVER SEND

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 01:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I could have written this.

I’d also like to add “stop using RP as your therapy”. My character’s words and actions are not conducive to therapy, and he’ll be saying the worst and most incorrect things in response to your character self-pitying. It would not be IC for him to comfort your character, I told you that.

Re: LETTERS YOU'LL NEVER SEND

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 02:07 pm (UTC)(link)
false, they could have chosen me

Re: MODS' PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 02:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Yep. I dropped off a modteam a little while ago and it was the best decision I ever made. I don't know how I let myself go on so long being talked to with such disdain and sneering unkindness. It felt like working retail at Christmas.

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 03:10 pm (UTC)(link)
is blurbos the new tumblr talk for infantilizing characters or something

i feel old

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 03:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah tumblr has started this whole babytalk thing with blorbo and eeby deeby and whatever else. I hate it.

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 04:05 pm (UTC)(link)
it's a meme where people make fun of themselves for constantly talking about random obscure characters nobody knows about. like when your friend posts about some dude from the anime they love and you don't know who it is but you're like good for that guy he seems nice. he is their blorbo from their shows.

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 04:05 pm (UTC)(link)
you're not like other girls rly

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 04:06 pm (UTC)(link)
I swear anons still talk about tumblr like it's the chupacabra that sneaks up to kill their livestock in the middle of the night when it hasn't been relevant for years now

twitter. the site you're thinking of is twitter.

+1

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 04:48 pm (UTC)(link)
anons here showing their age daily by pretending like tumblr still has any relevance whatsoever lmao

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 05:17 pm (UTC)(link)
old man yells at cloud

old rper yells at tumblr

Re: character tropes you can't stand

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 05:37 pm (UTC)(link)
High powered but super feminine women who are the Boss Bitch, but all it takes is that rough round the edges but golden hearted manchild to melt her ice

Also every character that Chris Pratt has ever played

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 05:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Pretty sure the majority of girls on the planet are the ones NOT saying eeby deeby blorbo

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 05:55 pm (UTC)(link)
tbf i think blorbo actually is from tumblr

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 05:56 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah it is.

tumblr is strange because it is still relevant, in that a lot of people will straight up steal tumblr posts and repost them on reddit and twitter so that's how they largely gain traction these days.

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 05:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Twitter steals memes from tumblr and Reddit all the time though.

Re: PLURK PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 05:59 pm (UTC)(link)
https://amp.knowyourmeme.com/memes/blorbo-from-my-shows

First appeared on tumblr Dec 24th 2021

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 06:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I didn't take it to be condescending, and thank you. I can understand being jaded in this hobby, but your rp partner is lucky to know someone with your insight and maturity. I hope things get better for them and they get better for you too.

Re: character tropes you can't stand

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 07:13 pm (UTC)(link)
"you abandoned me to this evil person/organisation that i am now loyal to for some reason, i hate you for inflicting them on me even though i am also undyingly devoted to them"

+1

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 07:19 pm (UTC)(link)
sometimes the character is brainwashed or hypnotized, but most of the time they aren't and it always makes this trope so weird.

da

(Anonymous) 2022-02-24 07:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm a very small-chested cis woman and my boobs are so sensitive it is actually distressing, like I can barely stand them being touched at all. thirding the 'partner likes doing this and it's sad because I hate it' sentiment from the other end of the spectrum