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239: how does one become popular on dreamwidth rp?

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i've always said that because my boobs grew so quickly, i think that's why they were so insensitive. i went from an a to a b to a c and then dd in a matter of a year. i was a dd from 14 on and they got up to an eee before i got pregnant. i've always thought that first year and the spurt from flat as a board to camel humps on my chest had my nerves unable to keep up with the spurt. i've known other larger breasted women who've had pretty high sensitivity in their breasts, but i just never got it.

i also feel you on the 'partner likes x and when they try to reciprocate, it just doesn't tickle my pickle' scene. it's a nice thought and i know where they're coming from, but i'd prefer they didn't.

I'm a very small-chested cis woman and my boobs are so sensitive it is actually distressing, like I can barely stand them being touched at all. thirding the 'partner likes doing this and it's sad because I hate it' sentiment from the other end of the spectrum

Actually super comforting to hear other people talk about this.

And I *will* make this about RP: when I write smut I don't think about chests literally at all and I honestly hate (but deal) when partners bring up nipple play etc and it's just from my own formative experience with having like no sensation in my breasts and finding it tedious. It's not a part of the body I even think about when I write, which hey! Maybe my own writing detriment but I think I'll just continue to write about the stuff that does interest.

also making this about rp; it's one thing to have your own personal preferences, that's all very valid, but rp is also fictional. i think it's okay even if breast/nipple play does nothing for you, if you want to explore it or if your partner similarly wants to explore it, to feel free to make it up and use your imagination? like i don't get the sentiment of letting personal inexperience or indifference prevent you from writing about something a character could very well be into?*

like most of us here are afab writing about cocks and dicks, we have no real way of knowing what that actually personally feels like. and it's going to feel different for everyone. i absolutely hate penetrative sex but when i write a character enjoying it i'm not going to bring my personal feelings into it. that fictional character isn't me, and rp is fiction in the first place. we're all using our imaginations here.

*obviously i'm not talking about triggers and squicks here

idk I thought I was mostly clear that it just didn't interest me and that just goes into writing. If someone wants to write a scene with it I will, it just isn't all that fun for me. Nothin' deep.

one of the above anons talking about having numb tits: it's definitely another story when i am writing kinks like breastplay. i'll often have my character be more receptive to sex things i'm not simply because it's fun to write. like penetration alone doesn't do it for me personally, but i know it works for some people, i've had partners who enjoy it, so i know it's a thing and i'll write my character getting off to it.

in a way it's kind of a wish fulfillment thing. in fiction you can throw in all kinds of unrealistic factors to make it more fun to write about, like aphro magic and transformations. the crazier shit i can write, the better. i don't rp for 100% realism, lol.

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