Re: character tropes you can't stand

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
tbh i was thrilled when the pretty, extremely feminine-looking male character in my fandom turned out to be very, very straight. i'm so tired of the "looks girly = gay" trope.

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
Oh I love her too. I was just meaning stone butch lesbian as in a woman who's not conventionally attractive to men like Cora and Jack are. They're still very pretty to appeal to the male dude bro opinion.

But yeah even if I think it's nice that the lgbt writers at bioware can say, make a gay man's story for dorian that lets them express themselves (I could be wrong but I think his writer is a gay man) it would just be so simple if everyone was bi and you could just pick to make your MC male or female to romance them however you wanted.

+1

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 03:18 am (UTC)(link)
tbh i go to the character's journal first for info and then i google shit

if i come up empty-handed and am still interested in giving the character a shot i'm just. going to tag. it doesn't matter when i'm canonblind anyway

it's not that scary tagging a character you don't know anything about, i promise. sometimes it's even a little thrilling. maybe even fun

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 03:21 am (UTC)(link)
ya i agree but thats kind of missing the OP's point that people shouldn't be so lazy they won't even spell out their canon names in the header it's annoying

Re: MEME PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 03:23 am (UTC)(link)
and not everybody knows that how is someone gonna know what jjk or hk or whatever means even the game of thrones people usually put Game of Thrones/ASOIAF to clarify please just spell out your canon names you're not tagging it for a tumblr post you're trying to get people to know what character you're playing

da

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 04:11 am (UTC)(link)
search the character name plus the acronym.

i'm not sure what's to complain about here. i can understand not liking people using cheeky joke names for their canons, but acronym's are such a nothing thing to get twisted over.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 04:13 am (UTC)(link)
it's the peeves thread? people are allowed to complain about annoying shit? OP even mentions that it's petty

Re: https://v.dreamwidth.org/15347414/3864560

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 05:10 am (UTC)(link)
good thing ayrt didn’t say they were holding it against her, then

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 05:23 am (UTC)(link)
i can't believe we still have to have the conversation that posting a pet peeve here doesn't make you immune to people calling out your peeve as petty or stupid.

if you want a place where no one is allowed to point out when you're being petty or stupid, make a private bitching plurk only to friends who will agree with you.

wankgate is not the place you go to just say thing and only get solemn nods in response.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 05:53 am (UTC)(link)
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It's my bar of chocolate
Give it to me now!
I want today,
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I want to wear 'em like braids in my hair and
I don't want to share 'em!~

Re: MEME PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 06:01 am (UTC)(link)
example of some long names that i see acronymed:
pirates of the caribbean
it's always sunny in philadelphia
what we do in the shadows
the woman across the street from the girl in the window

those are some of the la ones i know and i know there's a lot of anime titles that are just as long if not longer that get shortened down to hhgk or mdmz.

like, it's memes, my dude. if you're getting this twisted out of shape over not knowing a canon name because you think that's the only reason you're not going to tag someone, look at your life choices.

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 08:36 am (UTC)(link)
I’m not even sure it’s just the short/pixie cuts. It’s also the fact that they’re wearing armor that, while its sort of ‘cut’ for a female body type, is decidedly not feminine.

It’s still kind of gross to call them ‘queer-coded’ because of that, though. It sounds just a little too close to the idea that not following dated gender rolls must mean they’re lesbians.

+2

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 08:42 am (UTC)(link)
a lot of them end up undermining their cause when they say the quiet part out loud and reveal that, to them, 'queer-coded' actually means 'bigoted stereotypes like butch women and effeminate men.'

it's not as progressive as they think at all. it's very much the opposite of progressive.

Re: character tropes you can't stand

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 10:59 am (UTC)(link)
god I would love to live in your world anon where there are so many femme gay guys in media that it's actually become annoying

instead of out here watching homophobes freak out about the possibility of there ever being a gay kiss in a mainstream comic or big blockbuster movie

Re: character tropes you can't stand

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 12:17 pm (UTC)(link)
there are but they all die or don't have important enough roles for a big gay kiss

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 12:22 pm (UTC)(link)
sure but it's still bullshit that Jack isn't bisexual

Re: +2

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 02:03 pm (UTC)(link)
You do realize that butch lesbians exist and are not a negative lesbian stereotype right?

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 02:04 pm (UTC)(link)
It's bullshit that all the characters aren't bisexual anon what's your point

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 02:04 pm (UTC)(link)
because women with non-gender conforming hairstyles absolutely cannot be straight, ever

Re: +2

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 03:02 pm (UTC)(link)
they're also severely underrepresented in the media. i'm someone who seeks out f/f stories, and while there is plenty of media out there with f/f couples and lesbian characters nowadays (from comics to TV shows to kids' cartoons), you still don't see many butch lesbians (or butch women, period).

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 03:14 pm (UTC)(link)
you're annoyed

by people abbreviating the names of the series they play from

like legit?

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 03:16 pm (UTC)(link)
do you live in some bizarre world where straight people are underrepresented in media or something

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 03:20 pm (UTC)(link)
won't someone please think of the straight cis women?????

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 03:20 pm (UTC)(link)
pretty obvious that it's bullshit that Jack isn't bisexual anon

da

(Anonymous) 2022-02-28 03:25 pm (UTC)(link)
arcane is more GAY than LESBIANS. from what ive seen, people play the two guys and make them gay with each other. i hardly ever see the two girls in memes.