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Ryan Gosling ([personal profile] ryanongosling) wrote in [community profile] wankgate2024-05-21 06:04 pm

(Anonymous) 2024-07-06 04:13 pm (UTC)(link)
ive only done this intentionally once, and it was because the more i got to know the other rper, the more i realized they were a rather unpleasant person lmao

their writing was okay, but eventually it just wasn't the worth dealing with their negativity and vague conservatism on a daily basis, but you can't just tell someone you want to go back to being acquaintances without the risk of losing the friendship entirely. i didn't hate them or anything, they were just better in small doses

so i stopped rping with them in the hopes they'd start clinging to someone new instead when they found new rp partners. now we just chat when something relevant to our shared fandom comes up, and it's much better

it kinda sounds like "sometimes you just suck" when i put it that way lmao but i think it's more just, you need to realize you may not actually have anything in common beyond rp with these friends, so even if you did talk about other things some of the time, if 95% of your conversations were about rp, then you're going to lose 95% of the reason to talk to each other

Re: GOLDEN PEACOCK

(Anonymous) 2024-07-06 05:34 pm (UTC)(link)
not just them, the kiana too

Re: GOLDEN PEACOCK

(Anonymous) 2024-07-06 05:58 pm (UTC)(link)
They’re painfully tonedeaf so chances are it’s Soundwave again for the third time. How many times do we have to teach you this lesson, old man!? (classic SpongeBob is always relevant)

Re: GOLDEN PEACOCK

(Anonymous) 2024-07-06 07:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Wait wait wait. *Third* time? Have they really been rejected twice already?

Re: GOLDEN PEACOCK

(Anonymous) 2024-07-06 07:47 pm (UTC)(link)
yes

Re: ayrt

(Anonymous) 2024-07-06 07:49 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

can't tell you how many people i've had to friend dump for this very reason. no one wants to be friends with an energy vampire who never does anything besides complain, it drags down everyone around them and makes them miserable too.

Re: ayrt

(Anonymous) 2024-07-06 07:55 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah, i still have people added on plurk that i haven't rped with in more than 10 years but we're still friends because we talk about non-rp stuff these days. i've even had the chance to meet up with a whole bunch of them irl at cons and the like.

+1

(Anonymous) 2024-07-06 08:08 pm (UTC)(link)
this is it for me

if we're not doing an activity together i forget you exist, sorry. same irl too.

Re: DRAGON AGE

(Anonymous) 2024-07-06 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)
you're disgusting for thinking there's only two sexualities and everyone needs to fit YOUR preference. truly, the lgbt+ community is one that thrives on bigotry. prove me wrong

Re: DRAGON AGE

(Anonymous) 2024-07-06 09:24 pm (UTC)(link)
also, anyone using 'coded' unironically automatically doesn't matter, jsyk

Re: HAZBIN HOTEL

(Anonymous) 2024-07-06 09:26 pm (UTC)(link)
how the fuck is that racist. does she need a bible name to make you happy?

Re: genshin/honkai/wtfever

(Anonymous) 2024-07-06 09:27 pm (UTC)(link)
fuck you :)

Re: HAZBIN HOTEL

(Anonymous) 2024-07-06 09:29 pm (UTC)(link)
nice bait

Re: HAZBIN HOTEL

(Anonymous) 2024-07-06 09:37 pm (UTC)(link)
thanks for your take two months later

Re: DRAGON AGE

(Anonymous) 2024-07-06 09:38 pm (UTC)(link)
lazy bait

(Anonymous) 2024-07-06 10:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Jokes on you. I'm grass and that's my kink. Touch me more!!

Re: GOLDEN PEACOCK

(Anonymous) 2024-07-06 10:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Lordy Lordy. That's just sad.

Re: DRAGON AGE

(Anonymous) 2024-07-06 10:26 pm (UTC)(link)
hot jobs for neets in your area, click here now

Re: genshin/honkai/wtfever

(Anonymous) 2024-07-07 01:54 am (UTC)(link)
i hope this fandom fucking burns. the games are fine. but god the english-speaking fandom needs to fucking end themselves

Re: BLUE / WEEFOLK

(Anonymous) 2024-07-07 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
i mean

they're not wrong

Re: milk

(Anonymous) 2024-07-07 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
h...how do you know this?

Re: milk

(Anonymous) 2024-07-07 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
Guess who's back?

Re: Shari

(Anonymous) 2024-07-07 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
being queer doesn't mean a thing. you've got plenty of gay ppl very comfortable with saying that asexual or bi people don't matter or count. this community is just as bigoted as anyone else

Re: SINFULENCERS

(Anonymous) 2024-07-07 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
"an amab"? jesus fucking christ just say man

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2024-07-07 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
y'all really here typing like this? just. get off your phones for 2 hours. please