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Ryan Gosling ([personal profile] ryanongosling) wrote in [community profile] wankgate2024-05-21 06:04 pm

(frozen comment) Re: da

(Anonymous) 2024-07-10 10:36 pm (UTC)(link)
"Fin's friends were wrong for stepping in at the exact moment I said they should" can you not at least try to be consistent? It honestly just seems like (and has from the beginning tbh) you just want to lecture people on why, if only they had your wisdom and street smarts, they'd have known the correct way to deal with things was treat a predator like anyone else so as not to scare off the victim. People have been pointing out that your request is genuinely delusional with little guaranteed payout.

It is, honestly, quite telling that you are many more times invested in criticising the people who said gee Fin, this is setting off red flags for me, and not the people who spent a year telling them their engagement was "cute"

Re: milk

(Anonymous) 2024-07-10 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Based on what I was privy to I think you’re right on the money about Rona and her sycophants ruining Deer Country for everyone with their powergaming. Rona is genuinely a menace obsessed with playing the most powerful and main characters in every game she’s in and doesn’t care about anyone else’s fun, she’s a headache for mods. The Deer mod team had already been dealing with that in the first game, can’t blame Simcha for not wanting to deal with several more years of it. Then when Beth and Rona tried to take control of Deer Country to turn it into their own private sandbox at the end, I’m glad Simcha told them to go pound sand.

Re: milk

(Anonymous) 2024-07-10 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
more unfriending took place today and milk is still just shooting in the dark

Re: milk

(Anonymous) 2024-07-10 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah Simcha and Milk had a falling out, just like Milk does with every friend that steps up to mod their games for them. But I think Milk and Rona are still "friends".

Re: EXPIATION

(Anonymous) 2024-07-10 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
someone who pretty heavily bullied me and others i know of just got accepted. i'm freaked out. i'm scared to go to the mods because i'm afraid of it getting back to them and getting targeted again. fuck.

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2024-07-10 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Those pastebins are depressing. I'd forgotten how many people were just... totally fine with it, and only started backpedaling after the worse details emerged.

Sometimes it really feels like people can be memed into supporting just about goddamn anything as long as you just, what? Put the slightest effort into spinning something as positive?

Re: milk

(Anonymous) 2024-07-10 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
basically anyone milk ever says they had a problem with probably more accurately had a problem with milk. there is a reason milk goes through rp partners like tissue paper.

Re: EXPIATION

(Anonymous) 2024-07-10 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
someone who bullied one of my friends heavily is already in game prior to this round. it sucks but rp is a small world.

Re: milk

(Anonymous) 2024-07-10 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
surprised emma was cut when she's only ever been very supportive of milk and seemed like a decent friend. but she has modded for milk before so it was only a matter of time, milk always dumps the friends that mod for them.

Re: EXPIATION

(Anonymous) 2024-07-10 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
tell the mods you would prefer if your complaint was kept anonymous because you're worried about retaliation

Re: milk

(Anonymous) 2024-07-10 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I've been in a few games adjacent to these people without issue and see this powergaming accusation a lot and I take it with a grain of salt because some people say powergaming but what they really mean is "I don't like it that this person affected the entire game and now I have to think about it" as if everyone isn't playing in a shared setting.

I assume these are the same people who got upset whenever anyone would do anything at all that might affect their slice of life rp including killing the sandbox because they wanted a completely static setting and didn't want anyone to ever change anything about it.

Re: milk

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
you could at least try to be less obvious lol

Re: milk

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
Speaking of Rona's sycophants...

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
I had a similar scare with this last TDM (turned out not to be the player I thought it was, so it was all good), and one of the mods I spoke with after the fact was very kind in saying they would rather the current players speak up and be comfortable.

Re: milk

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
probably milks getting rid of anyone that so much as looks at saltburnt

Re: GAME PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
if your game is strictly private and only open to people on your own plurk list with no current plans to change this, why would you keep advertising it publicly and having people replurk the tdm links

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
Awww you are going to be very upset when your tech brainrot falls apart as it already is preparing to do, as it's actually not good at any of the things it claims to be!

Re: GAME PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
or there's the other kind of private/invite only dwrp game where it's functionally a public game just with an extra step in the app process, asking a mod for an invite. and absolutely anyone gets accepted, defeating the purpose of invites. dwrp does not know how to do actual private games lol

Re: EXPIATION

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
I believe I know the person you're referring to, anon. It's probably wise to remain discreet... they have connections with the moderators, and it could lead to your identity being revealed.

Re: milk

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
you're right but rona's grudgewankers have lived here for years so don't bother

-1

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
Unless you voice complaints about one of their closest friends

Re: EXPIATION

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
you're right. it sucks because i do genuinely love this game. but this is one player i feel so uncomfortable with around, i may have to drop.

Re: EXPIATION

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 12:51 am (UTC)(link)
sounds like you do, because from what i understand they have connections. also why i'm very nervous about reaching out. they were my worst rp experience with harassment. i don't know how to use vpns well and im sure the mods would ask for caps anyway, which would out me. i know they've been harassing others who have reported them in the past so i'm just... ugh.

normally i'd just avoid or DNI but it was such a bad time

Re: EXPIATION

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
unfortunately they're friends/on good terms, from what I've heard.

Re: EXPIATION

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
It seems we're thinking of the same person. They were recently banned from another major game thankfully, but the likelihood of any consequences here is low due to their connections.