(frozen comment) Re: da

(Anonymous) 2024-07-10 10:21 pm (UTC)(link)
no you moron, when someone is telling you that is when you step in. what the ever loving fuck is wrong with you in that your kneejerk reaction is either you take action or you’re an enabler? have you ever actually interacted with someone in a abusive relationship? the point isn’t to tell someone “oh youre being abused and you should leave” it’s to remain as support and a safety line when they realize they need to get out. unfortunately because this is real life, that sometimes just doesn’t happen because of various reasons.

you are a complete imbecile living in a fantasy world. i truly feel sorry for anyone that has to deal with you because of your completely lack of empathy and understanding.

(frozen comment) Re: da

(Anonymous) 2024-07-10 10:36 pm (UTC)(link)
"Fin's friends were wrong for stepping in at the exact moment I said they should" can you not at least try to be consistent? It honestly just seems like (and has from the beginning tbh) you just want to lecture people on why, if only they had your wisdom and street smarts, they'd have known the correct way to deal with things was treat a predator like anyone else so as not to scare off the victim. People have been pointing out that your request is genuinely delusional with little guaranteed payout.

It is, honestly, quite telling that you are many more times invested in criticising the people who said gee Fin, this is setting off red flags for me, and not the people who spent a year telling them their engagement was "cute"