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Ryan Gosling ([personal profile] ryanongosling) wrote in [community profile] wankgate2024-05-21 06:04 pm

Re: EXPIATION

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
I understand, anon. I've been in this situation before. Unfortunately, this hobby attracts its share of bullies and harassers who are becoming adept at keeping their behavior under wraps, making it difficult to expose them.

Re: EXPIATION

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
never ever report someone that bad if it would connect back to you. someone a friend reported thought i reported them about two years back and they’re still harassing me for it off and on.

Re: GAME PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
no there's parts of dwrp that do know how

it's just that those parts are the ones you'll know absolutely nothing about (because the privacy is working as intended lol)

Re: EXPIATION

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
Reading your other comments, I'm sorry to say that you should probably be ready to drop at any time, anon.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
I'm pretty sure this person also went on a whole witch-hunt trying to figure out who snitched on them in the last game they got booted from.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
if this person is as awful to everyone as you guys are saying, maybe someone could make an anonymous report?

da

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
It sucks, but you gotta look out for yourself. This game has its share of toxic folks, and they're good at circling the wagons to keep the drama out of anon channels. I dropped out a while ago because one player wouldn't stop badmouthing someone who left. It felt pretty petty, especially since I've never seen that person act toxic in the game we are both currently in.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
+1

rolling my eyes at the people going "oh this person is so terrible but i can't possibly do anything about it!"

either they're terrible, in which case you take the receipts to the mods, or they haven't done any actual shit and you're just getting your panties in a twist for no reason. which is it?

-1

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
IME sharing details just ends up making things worse for the person who's being harassed.

Re: EXPIATION

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
and whenever you do try to raise awareness you're just dismissed as a "grudgewanker". tale as old as time. just look at what's happening on flatview, even.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
was it a final fantasy they were badmouthing, jw

because honestly that whole weird tangent on rpa from a few expi anons eager to paint anyone who badmouthed the game as a final fantasy left a pretty bad taste in my mouth

Re: EXPIATION

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
Yep. That one. My experience was in a different game that did nothing about them. They blow up people's discords, harass people for tagging other people, get angry if you don't tag fast enough, stalk threads, shit-talk rp partners of the person they're shipping with, and lie constantly. That's just scratching the surface.

Re: milk

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 02:19 am (UTC)(link)
Not surprised because she posted on the saltburn tdm. Milk's gonna run out of people to cut pretty soon so I don't even get what the point is lol

Re: EXPIATION

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
yes. and in this case this player is very good at pretending like they've never done anything wrong, and oh goodness, their brain tinglies went off and it was the other dozens of people they've harassed that were the problem.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 02:25 am (UTC)(link)
Unfortunately, this.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
They did. Heard they're still harassing them too.

Re: EXPIATION

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 02:41 am (UTC)(link)
so does anyone actually want to name and shame or

+!

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
+1

yeah as a current player who doesn't know what's going on, tbh i'd support it.

Re: GAME PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 02:45 am (UTC)(link)
to gloat in the fact that certain people can't join the exclusive club, ofc

Re: GAME PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 04:12 am (UTC)(link)
saltburn? tons of my timeline replurked the game plurks and played on the tdm just to be told they're not actually allowed to join. what was the purpose of all that spam advertising then?

Re: GAME PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 04:13 am (UTC)(link)
you may be shitposting but i think you're 100% right.

Re: GAME PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 04:19 am (UTC)(link)
lol right? it's only open to the mod's plurk list with no plans of changing that, but all the game info plurks and tdms get replurked like crazy.

Re: -1

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 05:16 am (UTC)(link)
guys don't listen to these wankers, this is exactly what they want you to think

Re: GAME PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 05:55 am (UTC)(link)
bragging rights to say you are not part of their exclusive club tbh

actual private games i joined only ever was mod friends only, and was only advertised via players making their own commentary plurks, not mods ever making public plurks for it.

Re: EXPIATION

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 06:08 am (UTC)(link)
+1 just fucking say who it is if they're so awful