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251: back in my day wank meant something

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Took a gander yesterday and there's some questionable folks on this list

The only blazing red flag I see is Raina. Someone report that shit to the mods, that player consistently causes problems and is terrible to other people.

jesus is she still around?

played with her a while back and she was absolutely unbearable. every single thread she did she was like *teleports behind u* "nothing personnel kid". if your character wasn't making hers look badass she'd drop shit like a rock. not surprised she hasn't changed but who tf is inviting her to games? she pissed so many people off in the game we were both in mods couldn't find anyone left who'd put up with the last character she'd apped. bit sure invite her to a capped game, can't see any way that could backfire. great.

i can only imagine it's someone that doesn't know her schtick. godmodding, infomodding, pressuring people to play shit they don't want, probably was DNI'd by at least fifteen other players. not to mention that she screams and kicks her feet at every perceived slight despite being in the wrong 100%. absolutely guaranteed to bully and pressure people in ANY game, let alone a sex game.

i remember a while ago that she made a plurk supposedly to solicit opinions on something she'd done rp-wise and a few people came in to point out that what she'd done actually wasn't cool (i don't remember the exact details because it was about a game i wasn't in). she then proceeded to throw an enormous tantrum and unfriended a whole bunch of people and never once actually stopped to examine her own behavior that had made people tell her she was out of line in the first place.

She pissed so many people off in that other game because she didn't play for a whole month of the four the game existed (it was capped too lol), after asking for a character that someone else had planned to play, was isolating and guilting other players. When she complained on plurk about part of this in the most harmless way possible, absolving herself of any accountability, a lot of people immediately jumped to her side because she crucially left the context out of how long the game was going to exist and the nature of the character.

She lies, she twists the narrative to make herself in the right no matter the gargantuan evidence to the contrary, and she never learns because she never ever self-examines and thinks herself in the wrong for absolutely anything. Never. I cannot overstate this enough: the level of delusion she has about her own behaviour her is beyond extreme. Do not trust a single thing she says. If you have to engage her, take caps, she will misremember and lie about what you talked about unless directly confronted about it and sometimes even then.

ayrt and thank you for the info! like i said, i wasn't in the game in question so i didn't pay a ton of attention to the plurk but i just remember a few people calling her out (in fairly polite terms, as i recall) and then her throwing a massive tantrum and trying to paint herself as the victim. those details definitely make it much worse because i hadn't realized that it was a capped short term game or that someone else had been interested in playing the same character.

she's competitive to a toxic degree so this tracks.

she also projects her own bad behavior onto everyone around her. I had to deal with her years ago and realized at some point that all the things she accuses other people of are things she does herself.

She's not there anymore

Is this the same Raina that exploded a murdergame she ran and then plurked to accuse her comod of maliciously trying to make her have a mental breakdown by answering questions on a sotu post? I never saw whatever the initial explosion was but in the saw a plurk about it a couple years after the fact follwed by talking about how she's ready to forgive the comod for trying to get her fired from her job or something

She was going as "Sarah" at that time. Waiting to see if this incident will prompt yet another name change.

damn how have i never heard of this wanker before

DA Probably a combination of victim gaslighting and her sticking to ecats games. Those guys are scared of WG and would rather lowkey submit an anti-request to mods. The replies upthread match up with what I heard was happening in their games too.

+1 to the victim gaslighting, but lol they're not scared of WG. When ecats is near, or entirely, made up of friends of friends, shit gets around. WG doesn't really serve a purpose because the issues that crop up in that circle aren't relevant to the wider community. Even for venting, easier to just do it with the people you know, who are familiar with the context of how games over there work.

not in the loop here, deets?

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