(Anonymous) 2024-06-12 05:13 pm (UTC)(link)
da: tbh i've tried explicitly saying that on my top level too, along with several varieties of 'no smut' and 'no shipping' on tfln or regular memes. i've still gotten some ship pushers 'tee hee just trying!'

i just ignore them, personally, good way for people to tell on themselves that they've got very limited reading skills. but maybe the anon's canon is thirsty enough that it's more than a rare encounter? no idea.

(Anonymous) 2024-06-12 05:16 pm (UTC)(link)
i have gotten this as well. i also ignore them. the rpanons anon who was talking about it said they drop the threads it happens in but people kept telling them it was their fault they got those tags so i am not shocked it spiraled

(Anonymous) 2024-06-12 05:24 pm (UTC)(link)
"skill issue" is not victim blaming

(Anonymous) 2024-06-12 05:28 pm (UTC)(link)
i did not call it victim blaming. but [ you must be writing horny prompts ] and [ you must be tagging the wrong people ] and [ you must be playing from the wrong canons ] and [ well it never happens to me so you must be the one doing something wrong ] are sure a lot of words that seem to put people getting unwanted tags on them so it kind of is the rp version of it now that you mention it?

it is the kind of response you get from people who send those tags unsolicited and are real mad someone does not want them

(Anonymous) 2024-06-12 05:26 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah, there was a degree of 'it's your fault if you're not taking a hundred precautionary and/or retaliatory steps' attitude from some anons in that thread, probably because they'd pre-decided that anon was to blame, no matter what.

most of us just drop the threads we're not randomly feeling, let alone the ones that pointedly go against our prefs, come on. let's not pretend we all go out of our way to have a stern talking to with players, flag to mods and spread the good word when someone hasn't done more than minorly inconvenience us with a tag notif we can delete on a forgettable meme.

(Anonymous) 2024-06-12 05:31 pm (UTC)(link)
like i said to above anon i assume half the people buttmad about it are sending that kind of tag and do not like seeing people say they do not like it? just like i assume any anon who gets real uptight about any rp woes thread issue feels they could be the person being complained about.

and yeah if i do not feel a thread i just drop it. same with weird shit tags that ignore comment stated prefs. at most i might bring it up anon as a minor anecdote and then watch the world burn as people take offense, i guess? going off of rpanons right now