Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2024-07-10 05:38 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah

wish I could say she was the only one who felt that way, but I went to a trusted older adult rper to ask what I should do/say when it all came out, and he got mad and said there was nothing wrong with their relationship. the bad reputation of queer theory academics is not entirely unearned (he was one).

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2024-07-10 07:34 pm (UTC)(link)
i feel like there's a point of many fields of theory where they've spent so long in the theorizing/writing academic papers environment that they forget they're talking about real actual people who can be profoundly damaged by whatever they're spinning ten-dollar words about.