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Ryan Gosling ([personal profile] ryanongosling) wrote in [community profile] wankgate2024-05-21 06:04 pm
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(Anonymous) 2024-08-03 10:22 am (UTC)(link)
because tai does shit like aggressively out the anon mods of a game they just dropped because it was closing in a way they disliked, and something something shipping

(Anonymous) 2024-08-03 11:54 am (UTC)(link)
In fairness, one of those mods was breaking their own rules and bullying their own players to benefit and shield a harassing, lying pest just because they were shipping. The callout wasn’t undeserved. You’re not incorrect in your assessment of tai though.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-03 12:22 pm (UTC)(link)
you'll find most people don't agree with that, which might be why nobody liked the callout

(Anonymous) 2024-08-03 03:57 pm (UTC)(link)
This is such a bizarre take. Do you think bad behavior is fine if there’s no mass uproar or public controversy over it? That harassment (and shielding harassers from consequences) is okay so long as enough people don’t care it happened?

(Anonymous) 2024-08-03 06:46 pm (UTC)(link)
prove the harassment is harassment with deets and not just you actively trying to get a player banned because you don't like them.

simple as that.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-03 07:40 pm (UTC)(link)
are you being deliberately obtuse?

(Anonymous) 2024-08-03 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
it's tai or one of tai's friends. of course they're being deliberately obtuse.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-04 04:10 am (UTC)(link)
hey sometimes these "i like pancakes." "how dare you malign waffles?!?!"-esque posts are completely earnest

(Anonymous) 2024-08-04 07:38 am (UTC)(link)
true.

tai also has a long history of bullying people out of games, so i'd take any claim they or their friends make about what counts as "bad behavior" with a grain of salt when they've been long-time problem players in this hobby themselves.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-04 02:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe so, but even a broken clock is right two times a day.

I know at least three people who were harassed by SilverGrimalkin/Daisies (who went by Mina then) but because Beck was protecting her and explicitly because it was so hard for Beck to get a shipping partner, nothing could be done.

I managed to reach two of the three and both of them moved on from the community but maybe they’ll provide the deets anons are so hungry for. Mina does a fine job getting herself banned for the usual bananas behavior now that her ship isn’t modding her game though.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-04 02:30 pm (UTC)(link)
i was present for one instance of the "ship pushing and harassing" in question and it absolutely did not go down as described by tai and co. ask for the caps. they're bullies.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-04 02:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Do you have caps? I’d love to see this.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-04 02:35 pm (UTC)(link)
of course not, or i would have posted them

maybe you can post them, i have a feeling you might be included

+1

(Anonymous) 2024-08-04 03:37 pm (UTC)(link)
considering that person was also a known wanker herself who changed handles several times to escape their history as an art scammer and a rape apologist, i don't trust them when they cry about ship pushing unless there's good caps to show for it.

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2024-08-04 04:03 pm (UTC)(link)
wait what

deets

(Anonymous) 2024-08-05 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
https://wankgate.dreamwidth.org/51634.html?thread=200480946#cmt200480946

tl;dr she was notorious for taking multiple people's money for art commissions and never finishing them, but of course always being able to make time to draw slutty art of her OCs.

she also was openly doubting the validity of the me, too movement. i'm sure there's more but this was the first thread i was able to find offhand.

so yeah. i don't trust this bitch any farther than i can throw her. yes this was quite some time ago, but she was still acting like an abrasive asshole even in more recent years.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-04 02:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Tai is awful. I wasn’t aware of their dumbass tone deaf comment to Tess’s tragic loss because I have that twat blocked.

That’s not the same thing as saying Tai was lying about Beck. Beck was an obvious anon mod of her game and outed herself early in its history due to a post while logged into a personal account instead of the mod login.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-04 02:34 pm (UTC)(link)
no one said tai is lying, they're saying they do not agree with tai's assessment of the situation and they do not trust tai when tai claims harassment

have a Snickers, you can't even read

(Anonymous) 2024-08-03 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I know your friend being called out for acting like an asshole has to hurt a bit, but piece of advice:

Tai does not care enough about you to ride or die for them this much.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-03 12:49 pm (UTC)(link)
in fairness, you have to provide evidence of this so-called "bullying" that made this callout deserved so people might actually start to believe you. as it is, tai is a manipulative asshole and has proven that they are still a manipulative asshole.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-03 02:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Since when was providing evidence ever needed when it came to shit mods

thats a target on your back

(Anonymous) 2024-08-03 02:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Since always? Deets are deets, if we demand them for any Tom, Dick or Harry we wank about why would we have a double standard when it comes to shitty mods?

(Anonymous) 2024-08-03 06:42 pm (UTC)(link)
no, that's an excuse. there is no "target" when those people don't even mod an open game you're in anymore.

either shit or get off the pot.
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