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251: back in my day wank meant something

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no what's a REAL shitty thing is to drag the actual details of someone's rl tragedy onto wg because they want to win an internet argument. neither the mods nor jade did that. this anon did. maybe it's not spite knighting but idk what the other closest term would be.

like i think jade's complaints are about the equivalent of one long yawn-worthy wet fart where everybody got splashed with a little bit of shit. seeing this anon caping(?) for her by telling anonymous randos on a wank community all about her personal loss makes me actively feel bad for her.

fair point. i think this person sounds impossible to death with AND the mods sound impossible to death with and it's white noise so the "are you sensitive because you're on your real life tragedy period" thing stands out.

which is fair for jade to bring up, but then later in the post she complains about not being given more grace for being emotional and "a human being". maybe i'm reading it wrong but it seems like she wants it both ways

i read it as the mods saying "we know you're going through a hard time, BUT" and then dumping role playing drama on her anyway, and her saying that despite them bringing it up and using it in a way that felt bad, they did not actually give her grace. seems iffy to me if the mods could have ever given her enough grace to satisfy her, but we'll never know.

to me it looks like there's no winning for either side. mods should not have said that or bothered with these essays sent to her. op should have dropped months ago and not made this post.

that would make sense but the portion i'm referencing was in response to the mods' january PM, not november one which contained the overstep:

In all honesty, it makes me uncomfortable that the mods felt the need to quote me on Zoya. I was high in my feelings and expressing them (again: not the best thing to do!). This was about me, I was being emotional; let's calm down on pretending I'm not a human being.

to be honest anon i'm not going to re-read to help me contextualize.. this post is doing too much. i'll just choose to believe we're both right.

that makes as much sense as any of her logic as far as i can tell

[shakes your hand]

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