wankgate | 251: back in my day wank meant something

251: back in my day wank meant something

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This rage is bizarre bc tbh it seems like the mods are actually trying to express sympathy/understanding

eh, i sorta agree and sorta don't.

sure, i think you're right that the mods were probably intending it in a sympathetic way, but otoh it comes across a lot more like dismissiveness of her actual (overblown) issues. there's a middle ground where the mods weren't intentionally being assholes but still landed in asshole territory.

honestly, from everything ive experienced in two decades of journal rp, the occam's razor answer is almost always utterly abysmal social skills.

I went and looked it over again and I do think the answer is likely poor social skills. didn’t Jade have multiple mods added as friends on her personal account? I cam really easily see the line of logic beginning “oh, it’s going to look really cold if we don’t acknowledge that we as people know this is a time of year associated with bad memories for her” leading to a somewhat tone deaf statement. But I could also easily see anons here savaging the mods for ignoring that Jade might have been going through a hard time. Seems like a lose lose situation.

modding for the DWRP community usually is

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251: back in my day wank meant something

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