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(Anonymous) 2025-02-02 04:51 pm (UTC)(link)
gonna give her her wish and make her the main character of WG for a while

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-02 06:46 pm (UTC)(link)
so for people for whom that other thread is the first they've ever seen this name (i am the anon who changed my mind about wanting a game discord) can someone tell me the tl;dr on her

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-02 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
had to do some digging in the lab thread bc it was so massive, but i was able to find some deets about lili here:

https://wankgate.dreamwidth.org/66578.html?thread=269872658#cmt269872658

pretty sure there's more out there somewhere. too bad no one was willing to share any specific pastebins back then, but based on my own personal experiences with lili i'm inclined to believe those anons.

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-02 09:22 pm (UTC)(link)
“never in Lab, but dealt with Lili and this exact behavior in another game. originally I thought my issues were just simple personality or preference of RP clashing since she got real aggro on me/others wanting CR with her canon male character in game but not her OC Lior.”

this part is probably about Lili’s time in Genessia. She had her OC Lior back in that game. She raised hell in there too, often claiming everyone was being misogynistic towards her because they didn’t want bang Lior.

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-02 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
seems like she pulled this shit across multiple games so it could really be about anything she was in. i'd forgotten that she was also in genessia.

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-03 03:38 pm (UTC)(link)
i also met her through genessia. one time i was looking through shippy bkst memes and she offered up her ocs to me, and i told her i wasn't comfortable jumping straight into ships with characters i knew nothing about. she got so mad that she started bitching on her own plurk about how her night was ruined, then unfriended me the following morning.

two years later, we were in another game together, and she sent me a dni less than an hour after i set up my opt-out post. so she holds a fucking grudge whenever her ocs are scorned.

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-03 04:00 pm (UTC)(link)
lmao that's crazy

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-03 04:18 pm (UTC)(link)
damn lmao

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-03 04:24 pm (UTC)(link)
i was in genessia too. thank god i mostly stayed in my only little corner and never had to deal with this kind of crazy.

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-03 04:42 pm (UTC)(link)
If you remember Lili from Genessia, then do you remember that one OC of hers named “Sunspear” or something similar? It was another female elf OC (see a theme here?) with a big scar over her face that was abrasive as hell.

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-04 02:59 pm (UTC)(link)
she spent every day bitching to anyone who would listen about how much people hate female characters and especially female OCs and how everyone only wants dick, dick, dick (including her own male character's dick, how dare people want to play with her MALE characters when her female ones are right there, etc. etc.) she was too fucking stupid to figure out that it was her own shitty personality people didn't like. she was basically soul-bonded to that blue elf OC she had to the point where even the mildest criticism of anything that character did would send her into a fit. she'll blame the whole world for her problems rather than look in the mirror and realize that she's the common denominator.

inB4- yes, i sound mad, because i had to put up with listening to that shit in a shared discord server for way too long. i was even someone who tried to give her crit before i knew she'd turn into a maniac over it. i didn't save any caps like i should have because i wrote her off as a lost cause and moved on, but i'd never trust her as a mod to any game because of how poorly she receives criticism.

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-04 04:41 pm (UTC)(link)
i had her added on plurk briefly and she regularly posted about how she only cared about her elf ocs and shipping/smut. that she was only doing those tags. it's good to be open about what you want! but it did mean i was uninterested in tagging her in our shared game. not because i dislike female ocs but because it was clear my gen tags would be lowest priority if not completely unwanted. i wasn't the only one.

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-04 05:49 pm (UTC)(link)
rpers like these become self-fulfilling prophecies. why would i want to rp with someone who's this much of a pita?

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-05 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
Can confirm, when I didn't want to ship with her and our developing CR remained gen she dropped it right away and started treating me like shit. She's a piece of work.

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-04 04:58 pm (UTC)(link)
there is criticism to be made about dwrp (and fandom/society as a whole) only caring about dick, dick, dick.

the issue is that lili also only cares about dick, dick, dick and just uses "sexism" as an excuse for her own internalized misogyny.

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-04 08:15 pm (UTC)(link)
+1 ime the people who are loudest about how hard it is to get cr with their female characters are the most likely to ignore other female characters in their game.

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-05 05:22 am (UTC)(link)
and it's not hard at all to get cr with male characters as a female character if you're not just after dick, dick, dick either.

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-05 01:16 pm (UTC)(link)
men are only good for their dicks tho

like what else are we supposed to like them for? their personalities? their beautiful souls? i could maybe see their money because they sure as fuck can't cook or clean

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-05 01:47 pm (UTC)(link)
more than you're good for tbh

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-05 02:45 pm (UTC)(link)
oh yeah!? then explain why all the world’s top paid chefs are men.

checkmate, dickless hog.

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-05 03:03 pm (UTC)(link)
bait used to be believable

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didn't even realize that was supposed to be bait.

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-05 08:27 pm (UTC)(link)
the fact that this many people replied and even started arguing with each other over it means mission accomplished to them

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-10 03:16 pm (UTC)(link)
where is the lie tho

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-05 03:30 am (UTC)(link)
And this is why I severed ties with Lili. I noticed she kept blaming everyone else for her problems, even when she was the one who started them. She refuses to accept responsibility for her actions, and after years of witnessing her behavior, I was forced to distance myself from her.

So, this is Lili in a nutshell. She will never change with her strange victimhood mentality and she’ll keep burning bridges rather than learn to take criticism.