(Anonymous) 2013-04-05 07:05 pm (UTC)(link)
I used to run in fandom circles that treated all m/m and m/m shippers as misogynist trash and it's hard to shake the feeling that I'm sidelining women or fetishising gay men by playing gay/bi dudes exclusively.

(Anonymous) 2013-04-05 07:08 pm (UTC)(link)
go outside until you get the tumblr out of your system

+1

(Anonymous) 2013-04-05 07:26 pm (UTC)(link)

(Anonymous) 2013-04-05 07:15 pm (UTC)(link)
yes. you are doing both.

deal with it.

OP

(Anonymous) 2013-04-05 07:17 pm (UTC)(link)
The thing is that I'm a gay dude, I'm not sure how I'm fetishising myself or why I think I am.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2013-04-05 08:17 pm (UTC)(link)
stop listening to people on the internet

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2013-04-05 08:58 pm (UTC)(link)
The internet doesn't know a fucking thing about social rights and what is/is not objectification. Play what you want to play because you want to play it. You need no better reason than that.

+1

(Anonymous) 2013-04-05 09:01 pm (UTC)(link)

(Anonymous) 2013-04-06 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
The appropriate response to idiots telling you you're fetishising your own sexuality is to laugh until your stomach hurts. You'll feel much better, just as soon as the cramping stops.