in this case, it does. you're not hurting a single person when you do that, you're trashing the entire concept of gender identity because you make the basis of judging it entirely based on whether or not you like the person.
Again, no. You're reaching really far now and it's just starting to look pathetic. I'm not going to repeat myself so that you can keep the cycle of bullshit going.
Okay, except for this one thing: Not believing a liar is not transphobia. Period.
it is when it's about gender identity, and you have no proof they're lying, and really, can we get a list of some of these great lies and manipulations they've told?
I know they're a creeper. I know they overshare. I know they're boring. I've seen the deets on these. I have first hand accounts. But I've never heard of them being some tremendous manipulative liar, anon. So if you got deets that can blow this stupid transwank out of the water, then by all means, share already.
dude, all you have to do is look at all the legit, decent crit that has been thrown their way through the years about their rp and about the way they behave ooc.
look how every single time they claim ignorance that what they're doing is offensive or wrong and that they'll improve! you'll see! unless they have the memory of a goldfish and some really weird condition that prevents them from re-reading everything they've ever been told about what is and isn't an acceptable way to treat people, they are fucking lying when they say they didn't know this was bad.
they never do better. they never make a token effort to try. they pull the exact same shit over and over again. and now that people's disgust with them has reached critical mass, they're massively oversharing things clearly designed to get people's pity and keep tagging with them because they're just going to fall to pieces if they don't.
manipulative behavior doesn't have to be effective to be manipulative. lies don't have to be elaborate or intelligent to count as lies. people remember these things and form opinions about others' integrity based upon them. there is nothing a liar can claim that is automatically exempt from scrutiny or skepticism. that is the liar's fault. not anyone else's.
Because I don't believe in policing someone's gender identity based on prior behavior? Do you have any idea of what a terrible precedent that is to go by?
Newsflash: No one is required to believe a liar about anything they say. End of story. If you want to choose to believe them, that's your bag. Stop trying to tell other people what to believe or do. That's not ~transphobia~. That's common sense.
Funny how every single time this point gets brought up in this thread there's nothing but cricket chirping from the tumblerina crowd. Can't fucking defend the indefensible.
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(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:01 pm (UTC)(link)p.s. your shitty friend is still a liar
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(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:07 pm (UTC)(link)But as long as you call her a woman while you call her a liar, go nuts.
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(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:10 pm (UTC)(link)he is a liar. oh damn. what now?
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(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:13 pm (UTC)(link)(frozen comment) da
(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:16 pm (UTC)(link)Hating Kevin and never believing ANYTHING he says AT ALL has nothing to do with transphobia.
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(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)(frozen comment) Re: da
(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:25 pm (UTC)(link)Okay, except for this one thing: Not believing a liar is not transphobia. Period.
(frozen comment) Re: da
(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:32 pm (UTC)(link)I know they're a creeper. I know they overshare. I know they're boring. I've seen the deets on these. I have first hand accounts. But I've never heard of them being some tremendous manipulative liar, anon. So if you got deets that can blow this stupid transwank out of the water, then by all means, share already.
(frozen comment) Re: da
(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)It's not about gender identity. It's about a liar lying. Sorry.
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(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:41 pm (UTC)(link)(frozen comment) Re: da
(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:49 pm (UTC)(link)(frozen comment) Re: da
(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:41 pm (UTC)(link)look how every single time they claim ignorance that what they're doing is offensive or wrong and that they'll improve! you'll see! unless they have the memory of a goldfish and some really weird condition that prevents them from re-reading everything they've ever been told about what is and isn't an acceptable way to treat people, they are fucking lying when they say they didn't know this was bad.
they never do better. they never make a token effort to try. they pull the exact same shit over and over again. and now that people's disgust with them has reached critical mass, they're massively oversharing things clearly designed to get people's pity and keep tagging with them because they're just going to fall to pieces if they don't.
manipulative behavior doesn't have to be effective to be manipulative. lies don't have to be elaborate or intelligent to count as lies. people remember these things and form opinions about others' integrity based upon them. there is nothing a liar can claim that is automatically exempt from scrutiny or skepticism. that is the liar's fault. not anyone else's.
(frozen comment) Re: da
(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:47 pm (UTC)(link)If you lie and lie and lie and lie, don't cry when people think you're still lying.
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(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:10 pm (UTC)(link)(frozen comment) Re: KEVIN / KAY
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(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:20 pm (UTC)(link)(frozen comment) Re: KEVIN / KAY
(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)Newsflash: No one is required to believe a liar about anything they say. End of story. If you want to choose to believe them, that's your bag. Stop trying to tell other people what to believe or do. That's not ~transphobia~. That's common sense.
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(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)(frozen comment) Re: KEVIN / KAY
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(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:38 pm (UTC)(link)(frozen comment) Re: KEVIN / KAY
(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 08:44 pm (UTC)(link)If he wasn't a liar and a manipulator, he wouldn't be here anymore. He'd have been tossed out by so many people that he'd have nobody to play with.
And really, do we need to go beyond the manipulative wailing on the OOC comm for evidence? It's right there, anon. Learn to read.
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(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 09:34 pm (UTC)(link)(frozen comment) Re: KEVIN / KAY
(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 09:44 pm (UTC)(link)(frozen comment) Re: KEVIN / KAY
(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 09:46 pm (UTC)(link)we're saying that you can't come up with an argument when it's pointed out that he has a history of lying to get people to keep playing with him
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