This is really strange, anon, because she did this to me, too.
But I think I might know who you are if this was maybe 2-3 years ago. If you are who you think you are, I'm sorry and I want you to know that I really liked you and think about you sometimes!
It always felt like an "only me" situation, though I knew a few people who she unnerved or that didn't like her for reasons they were never really specific about. I got out of there eventually because I felt like the situation was pretty toxic and everyone was just hurting everyone based on lies that Theo had told while trying to manipulate others. I don't really RP anymore and I can't help but kind of look to Theo as the Jenga block that started to topple everything else over.
Not only you, almost the exact same thing happened to me too. Things were nice, chatting on AIM every day and having a good time. Then suddenly some specific topic got brought up, I dunno how -- normally not the sort of topic I'd debate with someone unless I REALLY knew them well -- and when I said I'd rather not talk about it she flipped out on me for not saying I shared her point of view. Not because I necessarily disagreed but my refusal to broach the subject was, in her eyes, just as awful as that.
It was really weird and jarring and after that I kind of stopped trying to listen or be sympathetic whenever she started venting about who or whatever was pissing her off in her game at the time. That's about when the IMs stopped coming, I think.
Until everyone else started coming forward with their stories here, I really did feel like it was something that I was just making up in my head and my bad treatment was just me being oversensitive or not understanding enough, so you're definitely not alone in that 'only me' feeling, anon :(
Sorry you had to go through that treatment, it's a really awful isolating feeling. I hope you're doing well too, anon.
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(Anonymous) 2015-04-02 10:59 am (UTC)(link)But I think I might know who you are if this was maybe 2-3 years ago. If you are who you think you are, I'm sorry and I want you to know that I really liked you and think about you sometimes!
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(Anonymous) 2015-04-03 03:54 am (UTC)(link)Hope you're well, anon!
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(Anonymous) 2015-04-03 06:19 am (UTC)(link)It was really weird and jarring and after that I kind of stopped trying to listen or be sympathetic whenever she started venting about who or whatever was pissing her off in her game at the time. That's about when the IMs stopped coming, I think.
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(Anonymous) 2015-04-03 07:34 am (UTC)(link)Sorry you had to go through that treatment, it's a really awful isolating feeling. I hope you're doing well too, anon.