i am in this boat right now and it sucks. i sent the mun a pp/pm, pinged them into plurks and got nothing but radio silence. looks like they are idling out.
i mad because all i wanted was a confirmation either way if they were staying or not. wouldn't have been this salty if i had gotten a straightforward no than being blatantly ignored.
a little courtesy goes a long way because now i have to figure out the aftermath for my character. thanks castmate.
One castmate has done this to me in four different games now. This time I managed to avoid even interacting with her before she dropped (when the ship she was clearly only here for dropped). The other interacted with me just enough for their character to drop major spoilers that have my character questioning so much but not play any after math even though they kept saying oh I'm totally going to tag that starter you wrote for me. I discovered they'd dropped when they just weren't on the taken list any more.
They don't have to tell me ahead of time, but I don't think it's unreasonable to be kept in the loop once they've done it.
i am in this boat right now and it sucks. i sent the mun a pp/pm, pinged them into plurks and got nothing but radio silence. looks like they are idling out.
God, I can't understand why people pull this shit. I've seen it so many times, too. They just ignore any attempts to contact them until they've idled. Are people THAT afraid of having to break some mildly disappointing news that they'd rather hide until the mods idle them?
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wankgate2016-04-03 08:01 pm
Re: GAME PET PEEVES
(Anonymous) 2016-04-07 01:06 pm (UTC)(link)i mad because all i wanted was a confirmation either way if they were staying or not. wouldn't have been this salty if i had gotten a straightforward no than being blatantly ignored.
a little courtesy goes a long way because now i have to figure out the aftermath for my character. thanks castmate.
Re: GAME PET PEEVES
(Anonymous) 2016-04-07 04:09 pm (UTC)(link)They don't have to tell me ahead of time, but I don't think it's unreasonable to be kept in the loop once they've done it.
Re: GAME PET PEEVES
(Anonymous) 2016-04-07 07:05 pm (UTC)(link)Re: GAME PET PEEVES
(Anonymous) 2016-04-08 02:36 am (UTC)(link)God, I can't understand why people pull this shit. I've seen it so many times, too. They just ignore any attempts to contact them until they've idled. Are people THAT afraid of having to break some mildly disappointing news that they'd rather hide until the mods idle them?