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wankgate2016-04-03 08:01 pm
ryanongosling) wrote in wankgate2016-04-03 08:01 pm
hello my beloved shitfaces
what do you do when you're bored besides doing rp shit?
or what do you do when you're avoiding doing tags (because everybody does it at least once don't lie to yourself)?
share with me your secrets.
what do you do when you're bored besides doing rp shit?
or what do you do when you're avoiding doing tags (because everybody does it at least once don't lie to yourself)?
share with me your secrets.
Obsessively pinterest the shit out of things. Fandom boards. Fantasy art. Sci fi art. Space science stuff.
I have some boards with 1000+ images.
It feels the same as collecting pokemon cards and I like going through them on days I'm feeling down and looking at all the pretty.
I have some boards with 1000+ images.
It feels the same as collecting pokemon cards and I like going through them on days I'm feeling down and looking at all the pretty.
ive been playing a lot of drawception recently
like, a LOT
its really fun tbh! and good for when im up watching the new puppy and all my rp partners are asleep
like, a LOT
its really fun tbh! and good for when im up watching the new puppy and all my rp partners are asleep
Look at Netflix and watch something (I'm watching 30 Rock and Clone Wars currently), browse tumblr ad nauseam, draw stuff, play video games like Nuclear Throne, etc. There's a whole bunch of things to do when you're bored, the sky's the limit, friend.
read threads about human trainwrecks on a site that involves the care and feeding of certain indigenous flightless birds
it's like a car crash i can't look away from, multiplied by 1,108
it's like a car crash i can't look away from, multiplied by 1,108
i happen to live where gays are the ones in control. hetereos are actually few here. you get shamed at school for not even dating the same sex at least once, and online it's even worse. as soon as everyone figures out your cis, BOOM, right away they want massacre you.
fuck what country has tumblr finally conquered?!
pls no more angsty romance memes with sebastian stan images this week. that man's face triggers me.
you lived through the era and berenstain crumplebottom
you can deal
you can deal
when you're playing a kind, compassionate, warm character and you start being able to tell that someone is just using them as a disposable crying shoulder.
can't wait to develop this character to the point where they'll realize when other characters are using them this way and draw away from the cr.
can't wait to develop this character to the point where they'll realize when other characters are using them this way and draw away from the cr.
Obviously it's bad form to app into the same cast as someone that dislikes you and vice versa, but what about in the case of a character that would make you semi-castmates? I'm thinking about instances like one person playing from MCU and the other playing from the X-Men films. Or one person playing from FF7 and the other playing from FF13. You're not actually castmates and your characters can completely ignore each other without causing IC issues but there's an OOC expectation/'tradition' of these casts having interlocking CR circles.
In this particular case we'd be the only characters from either cast but what do you think? Worth the potential headache and drama or not?
In this particular case we'd be the only characters from either cast but what do you think? Worth the potential headache and drama or not?
If you're this handflappy about possibly having overlapping CR with this person, you should probably just not app to their game period.
I caught a later-deleted plurk where OP was not only whining about his "amazing" top-level was being ignored, but also taking note of his CR doing their tags for him later than others or last and whining about that.
That is... Kinda creepy.
That is... Kinda creepy.
rp on memes be like http://i.imgur.com/wpDJqlP.gif
so some people invited me to join their psl, and i did. it seemed like they had a lot of stuff already planned so i tried to work my character around theirs rather than insert them into the plots that were already running and let them know that if they felt my character should sit out or that i was messing up previously agreed upon plots that they could tell me and i'd sit out or play around the plot rather than trying to be a part of it. everything seemed cool to me, and they knew i was good for my word, because they asked me to sit one out because it was supposed to be a plot just for the characters originally involved in the psl, as there were two or three characters that weren't the 'main' characters of the psl. i was fine with it and didn't show my ass or anything (i'd understand what eventually happened if i had.) and just went about playing in personal plots with each of the characters.
eventually they all just decided to drop the whole thing without really telling anybody. it sucked, but whatever. i fell off of the rp bandwagon at that point but most of us were still on speaking terms. talking every day speaking terms.
so it kind of sucked to find them rping in a new space with new accounts, the same psl, just without me.
and it kind of crosses my mind that i have had things like this happen before? so i'm really wondering if i'm the shit caliber person in all of these situations rather than everyone else, but the fact that i try so hard not to be annoying, pushy, or even overbearing to the point where i let them dictate the depth of my interactions in the psl makes me wonder what more people could want. it isn't like i wasn't having fun even though i was walking on eggshells to make sure they were okay with my inclusion, and they were always saying how much fun they had playing with me (without me prompting it, i never asked for reassurance and never felt like i needed it because they were always talking about how much fun we had together on their own).
mostly i'm sore that they don't seem to think i'm adult enough to handle being told that they don't want me involved anymore.
eventually they all just decided to drop the whole thing without really telling anybody. it sucked, but whatever. i fell off of the rp bandwagon at that point but most of us were still on speaking terms. talking every day speaking terms.
so it kind of sucked to find them rping in a new space with new accounts, the same psl, just without me.
and it kind of crosses my mind that i have had things like this happen before? so i'm really wondering if i'm the shit caliber person in all of these situations rather than everyone else, but the fact that i try so hard not to be annoying, pushy, or even overbearing to the point where i let them dictate the depth of my interactions in the psl makes me wonder what more people could want. it isn't like i wasn't having fun even though i was walking on eggshells to make sure they were okay with my inclusion, and they were always saying how much fun they had playing with me (without me prompting it, i never asked for reassurance and never felt like i needed it because they were always talking about how much fun we had together on their own).
mostly i'm sore that they don't seem to think i'm adult enough to handle being told that they don't want me involved anymore.
That was really shitty of them, I'm sorry anon. Tbh based on what you've described and not knowing their side of it, you sound like the only adult in this situation. They should have been honest about not wanting to play with you, especially if they knew you could find out how they continued the PSL while just excluding you. Personally, lying (or lying by omission) always hurts me more than being told someone doesn't want to tag me anymore.
On the other hand, it may be possible that they lost interest in including you because you were so cautious about your involvement. Maybe they took it as a lack of enthusiasm on your part when you didn't try and jump into their plots.
On the other hand, it may be possible that they lost interest in including you because you were so cautious about your involvement. Maybe they took it as a lack of enthusiasm on your part when you didn't try and jump into their plots.
"the creepy f/f players who keep trying to smut or drop ships on me without warning
i even put down m/f only but that proved futile when i was still getting pms from them going 'i know you said m/f only BUT MAYBEEEEE YOU COULD DO THIS ONE TIME AS A EXCEPTIONNNN I HAVE AN IDEAAAAAAA'"
wait, does this really happen?
i even put down m/f only but that proved futile when i was still getting pms from them going 'i know you said m/f only BUT MAYBEEEEE YOU COULD DO THIS ONE TIME AS A EXCEPTIONNNN I HAVE AN IDEAAAAAAA'"
wait, does this really happen?
not that op, but i've put f/m as a female character on a meme and had a female char tag me. i just didn't reply and didn't get a pm from them, but i have seen a few of what op described as well as just asking to play and not even mentioning preferences and the other party going 'well, i put m/f, but...'
so yeah, it does. it's not all over the place and not all the time, but since i myself have experienced it and i've seen it happening on bs, yeah, it happens.
so yeah, it does. it's not all over the place and not all the time, but since i myself have experienced it and i've seen it happening on bs, yeah, it happens.
being told in countless plurks and being generally harassed to tag a thread when you've set the expectation that you'll be busy... and then when you actually tag it, they disappear as if they weren't begging only a few days ago ???
how about being told you'll get tags and then nothing ever comes
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/4eree3/how_do_i_25f_tell_future_partners_about_my_text/
so which one of you is this
so which one of you is this
http://fuckyeahmelancholy.tumblr.com/post/142797194426/dickgraysonn-cant-believe-the-marvel-cinemati
(Anonymous) 2016-04-14 07:03 pm (UTC)(link)bonus points for the three images having judging or are you series type of expressions.
Re: http://fuckyeahmelancholy.tumblr.com/post/142797194426/dickgraysonn-cant-believe-the-marvel-cine
(Anonymous) 2016-04-14 07:06 pm (UTC)(link)i'm a dc girl through and through but i can't believe how much dc fans have been showing their ass lately
Re: http://fuckyeahmelancholy.tumblr.com/post/142797194426/dickgraysonn-cant-believe-the-marvel-cine
(Anonymous) - 2016-04-14 19:38 (UTC) - ExpandRe: http://fuckyeahmelancholy.tumblr.com/post/142797194426/dickgraysonn-cant-believe-the-marvel-cine
(Anonymous) - 2016-04-14 19:28 (UTC) - ExpandRe: http://fuckyeahmelancholy.tumblr.com/post/142797194426/dickgraysonn-cant-believe-the-marvel-cine
(Anonymous) - 2016-04-14 19:39 (UTC) - ExpandRe: http://fuckyeahmelancholy.tumblr.com/post/142797194426/dickgraysonn-cant-believe-the-marvel-cine
(Anonymous) - 2016-04-14 20:40 (UTC) - Expandguys what the hell did you do to mari? she's turning into fox mulder by way of chris-chan.
craus are such shit, when did they become standard
amen. i'll take a game with ocs over a game with craus.
you are suddenly logged into wankgate under the last account you used. how fucked are you?
That feeling when you're in a thread with one great reliable tagger and one huge flake.
Is there a way out wankgate help me out here.
Is there a way out wankgate help me out here.
avoid taking on huge flakes in your thread the next time
problem solved
problem solved
For whatever reason, what's the worst game you've ever played in?
both digimon games
they could have great, i was so excited... but they both just sorta fell short
they could have great, i was so excited... but they both just sorta fell short
Maybe I'm just a tittybaby or something, but I wish people would stop just slapping PTSD on characters they play without actually looking into PTSD and seeing if they match at least a portion of the symptoms. I play characters that don't have it and some that do, even if they all have trauma. Or if they do slap PTSD on their character journal, at least give it more than "they have a bad dream sometimes", or whatever little thing they decide to do with it that they rarely ever do. Trauma in life =/= PTSD. PTSD is a result of trauma, but it's not guaranteed with horrible shit in life. And it really fucks people up. I've been in a lot of car accidents. I don't have PTSD from it. I know someone who does from their own. I know I'm not some PTSD EXPERT and I don't think people have to be, it just chafes my booty a little bit to throw it around like a casual description instead of an actual disorder.
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