da

(Anonymous) 2018-07-28 03:20 pm (UTC)(link)
so there are like several different funerals being mentioned on plurk rn if you ever wonder why people might come over here and snap at you, op

dda

(Anonymous) 2018-07-28 03:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I know I snapped at op because there's two people on my plurk timeline rn who've been plurking about funerals/the death of a family member and they've been nothing but respectable about it. this is definitely something where more details would have been better.

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2018-07-28 05:49 pm (UTC)(link)
oh, i agree. i just think op should know this really isn't a topic to be that vague about or, even better, to mind their own damn business on.

+1

(Anonymous) 2018-07-28 06:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Dragging someone's business in public because they're not mourning the way you think they should seems way tackier than unconventional coping methods. During my grandmother's funeral I had a giggling fit so bad I actually had to get up and leave the chapel mid-service. Doesn't mean I wasn't devastated.