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i felt the same way when i first read it. she gives us this long sob story thinking it's going to buy her sympathy points but all i got from it was her making excuses for her questionable behavior.

agreed

i think people are mixing two different issues here

i think the homestucks were obnoxious on rpa, but the actual log issue was handled well (like someone on rpa said, this happened some days ago)

but on the thread, the main issue that was being discussed was how the whole blocking+tagging was handled, and i think bee was the ass there, so the pm was good context for THAT.

if dave's only comment had been the pm nobody would've batted an eye but because they said all those things logged in now attention is off bee

it might be people mixing three issues, because my takeaway from it was somebody defending themself against anon gossip that went too far. like i really don't care about how some dramatic weirdo handles the block stuff and they're all allowed to block each other, whatever. but lying about someone's dramatic vent to frame them as somebody trying for real violence is pretty bad.

you are absolutely right, the thread derailed so much that the original anon that said that stuff was completely forgotten

IMO posting about cutting off fingers over rp is unhinged antisocial behavior that should be called out.

that may be why some people are having such a bad reaction to the homestuck person, too. they made comments about getting their fingers cut off which smacks of having been the original anon.

if that had happened you'd be right

Where are the pastebins to prove it did or did not happen?

she's trying to play it off as OH YOU'RE JUST OVERREACTING THAT'S NOT WHAT I MEANT but that's still really creepy to joke about

and given her reputation and the context of the original comment, she's obviously doing everything she can to bid for sympathy and warp everything in the situation to make it seem like she's 100% the victim as opposed to someone who played some role in how this turned out

i too am glad that years of shitty behind-the-scenes behavior finally bit her in the ass and her whiteknight friends can't rescue her this time

that makes no sense because the entire thing started when bee removed them, so they couldn't have seen and missread such plurk. and they're asking for proof to be sent to the mods. i do think megan should't have believed the anon so easily, but i don't believe that anon was them.

i have to wonder if it's the one same anon that keeps misusing the term "gatekeeping" or if we genuinely have multiple people here who have no fucking clue what that term means.

if she said that, then it's on the people saying she did to bring the proof of it

i cannot provide them, i'm just reading what's available. if someone has proof that her logged in comment was a lie and she really did say some bad shit, and it's not just same old dwrp grown women blowing it out of proportion because they don't like her (which is fine she seems annoying) then i'll change my take

until then sorry it seems like anons doing the most like they always do

true, but the rest of ayrt's point still stands

bee didn't only clarify the finger thing, she tldred and played victim about the whole situation while clearly being part of problem. so while i don't disagree that the finger thing needs proof, it cannot blame people for seeing the context and thinking that someone misspresenting nine points is also misspresenting the tenth

"I said the next person who showed me a basic lack of courtesy was getting their finger bitten off."

Bee's own words, imo that sounds like pretty much what anons interpreted it as. Sure it's a vent plurk but it's still a fucking weird thing to say.

i can see that yeah. i can also see people assuming anons were bitch eating crackers about it

absolutely, but the point is that bee still had all the rest of comment to look like a ass even if the finger thing was a lie. concentrating on that is taking off the attention of the actual crazy

this may be a disagree to disagree thing. i don't care if she's crazy because i don't play with her, but i do mind about people making up finger slicing and running to anon about it, if that makes sense.

sa

*agree to disagree. lol

oh it's fine to be bothered by that comment, and i don't think anyone would disagree if that was its own separate subthread commenting on how far anons can go? but it keeps coming up (here and rpa) in the context of judging bee's craziness and it's like... dude, who cares about the finger when you have the rest of their comment. it looks bad (in general, not implying you are trying to do that on purpose) when people are sideeyeing a person and someone comes and says "ah but on THIS ONE thing they're fine!"

she did say she would bite someone's finger off

it's probably just people having different priorities in the conversation

and that's fine but then make a separate subthread for it instead trying to change another person's priority into yours (general you being used here)

uh lol i doubt anyone was doing that. people are just talking, anon.

that's not at all a weird thing to say.

it's obvious comic hyperbole, anyone with any sense knows she's not going to literally bite people's fingers off. are you a fucking child?

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