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239: how does one become popular on dreamwidth rp?

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+1 when i booted out a shitty attitude player, yes their immediate posse dropped with them and made a stink and they wanked on the game for a couple of months but the rest of the game's actual activity skyrocketed after that. other players thanked us.

it didn't feel immediately worth it but over time it became the best decision we made. good riddance to bad trash, as they say

da +1

can we just have butch stereotype lesbians and stereotype effeminate gay guys and also butch straight women and effeminate straight guys and then bi people of every flavor in-between?

these aren't mutually exclusive things, nor does one "take away" from the other.

getting real sick and tired of finding games i'm really into but they either die in two months because the mods just forget about them, or are rushed and barebones and die in two months, or the tdms are flocked with shitty players so only their friends app and then the game dies in two months, or established games have app cycles 4 times a year and you're competing with a huge pool of people who are also desperate to not be in games that die in two months

or the tdms are flocked with shitty players so only their friends app

There it is. People rping is killing games.

What games even have app cycles like that? I thought it's usually monthly unless there's a cap situation.

just Those people. not me.

I've modded a few games and have found most players are perfectly nice to mods - which is not at all to say bad behavior doesn't happen, I've definitely seen that phenomenon too! What it is to say is this:

Players treating you like shit is not a normal condition of modding and it's not something you should just accept or quit. It's the result of specific people behaving badly. Don't grin and bear it; tell them their behavior is unacceptable.

There is nothing better you can do for yourself as a mod than set boundaries and enforce them. "Don't talk to me like that, I'm a fellow hobbyist working hard so you can have fun" is a VERY REASONABLE boundary.

And if they throw a fit when you ask them to be nice, ban them. I guarantee your game will be better without someone who has an attitude like that.

oprah-winfrey-shrug.gif

you can't just say "i can't ban the players who are mean to meeeeee i'm just gonna suffer silently" and expect to be taken seriously. nut up and mod your game, or close it if you hate it that much. you aren't gonna impress god and get into heaven by suffering that death by 1,000 cuts for the sake of some nerds on the internet.

out of interest do you ever offer to help out the mods of the games you're interested in but end up dying?

Their post mentions mods forgetting about the games, you can't really step up in cases of mod abandonment (ex. Springwood).

I'm guessing no though in cases where there are calls for mods.

mods didn't even ask for help, they just closed up shop for whatever reasons

sometimes it's justified but it's no less frustrating

abraxas and ximilia are every other month apps and they're capped. so they might be what the person is thinking.

TOO MUCH PINK ENERGY IS DANGEROUS

i think my worst head on a can is chef boyardee

your ascot looks ridiculous you fake italian

yeah you're right

'always using effeminate men as villains' is totally the same thing as 'you made a man who wasn't into nascar and then gave him a male best friend and then didn't have him fuck his best male friend, you are queerbaiting'

what was i thinking

that one mandy moore oc
kylo ren

i honestly never want to see kylo ren anywhere tbh

there's not a whole of characters i won't tag on principle, but he's definitely one of them

kylo ren/link [lemon] {inflation, weight gain, vore}

[clicks]

https://i.imgur.com/L7y1SLE.mp4

kylo ren fan posts kylo ren content

anyone who plays levi from AOT as a hungry hole bottom

Who even still plays from aot

I think Avalon has a couple of them

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