wankgate | 239: how does one become popular on dreamwidth rp?

buddy if you are pushing the same button over and over again 10 times and getting blocked for it you might need to do some introspection

We cant mind read! Communicate!

no one wants you to read minds. people just want you to spend the time you're wasting here arguing uselessly to self-reflect why you keep getting blocked. it's that simple.

like seriously. if you can't be bothered to take the first step in self-improvement (reflecting on what you did wrong), which is minimal effort on your part btw, then you aren't entitled to anyone's time and effort just so you can have this spoonfed to you.

Why? So you can freak the fuck out about how you did nothing wrong and then go lie to anyone who will listen about how you're being bullied, actually?

Because let's be real, 9/10 times this is the response "communication" gets you

nobody feels sorry for you

why do all of your responses sound like they were written by a neural network

what the fuck are you talking about

You ghost or block so how do we know we did a thing?
Some of us would like legit feedback

1. it's not anyone's job to give you feedback
2. not everyone wants feedback and it would be weird to assume they did
3. people are batshit crazy and it's safer for yourself if you don't start shit

i swear to god if ayrt isnt baiting or trolling it has to be art coming back to whine about people not giving them a 2 page essay with citations about why they are no longer friends on plurk

it's weird to me that people like them are that invested in random internet strangers, like
I can't fathom giving that much of a shit. if someone blocks you because they find you annoying or something, why would you want them to try and pursue something with you

this is speaking entirely from a place of hypotheticals fwiw, I'm not OP or anything, just a flatviewer who things this is dumb, and I'm not trying to be edgy here but my perspective is

bro if I'm blocking you I don't care about you enough to have a convo like that, we're not simpatico, it happens, it's not that huge, shrug it off. I'm not life coaching you because I just
I don't care
I'm just here to write with people I enjoy playing with

So it doesn’t happen again to someone else

your own betterment is your own responsibility

Cant if i don’t know what the thing was

what annoys me is not necessarily what annoys other people

e.g. if I don't like you because I think we have contrasting takes on a fandom/political issue/the use of oxford commas, I'm not going to PP you to be like 'hey I know we're not that close but just wanted to let you know I'm blocking you because we disagree on this issue, just so you know to change your behavior for other people'

that's crazy
I'm just gonna curate my space, not expect you to change

Some of us want to do better

paypal me $1000 and i'll tell you exactly how you can do better.

Whats your paypal?

It's because you're too fat. Just like Jamie and the other wankers. No one likes fats.

I'm not sure you really get that there isn't necessarily a 'better' here in some cases, so much as personal preferences and clashes in personality. It seems like you might be insecure, I could be wrong, but if that's the case, the thing you should worry about bettering is accepting that not everyone is going to like you, and that is okay. The sooner you allow that to be a thing without letting it effect you so much, the healthier you'll feel and, probably, the more people will like you just as a result of the natural change in attitude that follows. ime listing off the reasons why you don't like someone's personality does not help anything, it just makes both parties feel like shit.

Do better on... what, exactly?

If I prefer A and you prefer B, and I decide I don't care about B and block you-- what would you improve? You like B, you don't need to like A. There's nothing to improve.

You're overthinking being blocked by strangers.

Friends are a different matter altogether.

not for nothin' anon, but it actually is kind of weird to block someone because they like a thing you don't care about.

have u heard of an "example"

Not really. I mean I know a lot of people who block others for posting too much about their fandoms.

starhuevalley who had a fucking melt down over having to have an opt out post. I wonder if the pedantic moron in this thread is them.

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