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Ryan Gosling ([personal profile] ryanongosling) wrote in [community profile] wankgate2022-02-14 02:55 pm
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Different things sometimes odd things upset others and we can’t mind read

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-29 08:20 pm (UTC)(link)
and?

if I have a vested interest in the relationship yeah sure work to amend it and work through that. I had a conflict with a friend that came up enough times and couldn't be reconciled we eventually decided to part ways. Other friends we've gotten through it.

but it's emotionally exhausting to have those types of conversations so strangers or random people in my game?? Let them live their life. It's not worth the risk or the effort.

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Then understand if a button is pushed 9 times out of 10 its accidental

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-29 08:33 pm (UTC)(link)
buddy if you are pushing the same button over and over again 10 times and getting blocked for it you might need to do some introspection

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We cant mind read! Communicate!

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no one wants you to read minds. people just want you to spend the time you're wasting here arguing uselessly to self-reflect why you keep getting blocked. it's that simple.

like seriously. if you can't be bothered to take the first step in self-improvement (reflecting on what you did wrong), which is minimal effort on your part btw, then you aren't entitled to anyone's time and effort just so you can have this spoonfed to you.

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Why? So you can freak the fuck out about how you did nothing wrong and then go lie to anyone who will listen about how you're being bullied, actually?

Because let's be real, 9/10 times this is the response "communication" gets you

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"i follow almost 900 accounts on twitter"

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-29 08:34 pm (UTC)(link)
"nothing is ever my fault!"

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-29 08:53 pm (UTC)(link)
If you aren’t forward about something bothering you… idk what to do

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-29 09:06 pm (UTC)(link)
this is fucking "i forgive you for unfriending your players" level misunderstanding social convention at this point

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We are still real people behind these words and we do have guilt for pressing buttons by accident

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go away, art

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-29 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)
if we're friends that's one thing but if you're some random asshole who keeps interrupting me in mutuals' plurks or talking constant shit in the game discord about something I enjoy why would I go out of my way to inform you that you're annoying the fuck out of me instead of just blocking you

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Because you should report the person talking shit to the mods

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Good moderators should give the person talking shit about any fandom a warning

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is this satire

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this can't be real

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-29 09:14 pm (UTC)(link)
also depends on what kind of talking shit we're talking about here

my castmates and i will sometimes shittalk our canon with affection because there are some things about it that are dumb af and we readily admit that and joke about it

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to be clear

you'd rather they try to get you in trouble with the mods than just block you and move on

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-30 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
it takes exactly zero effort to say "hey just so you know, this thing bothers me"

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-30 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
It actually does because the people hearing this turn molehills into mountains.

Why don't we all just focus our effort on bettering ourselves.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ThJcHjCI9j4

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because i am just fine

it's everyone else in this hobby that needs to get better

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when youre dealing with people like the one anon whining and crying in this thread, it actually takes quite a lot of effort

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-30 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
that actually does take some amount of effort
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