Re: da

(Anonymous) 2023-03-10 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I don’t understand how indicating preference/boundaries in a permissions post wouldn’t solve this issue. Before I tag someone I typically take a peek at their permissions, especially if I’m looking to gear the thread towards something shippy. If someone doesn’t have permissions up, you can always check in which is normal and doesn’t take too much time anyway. I think having two communities to check would be more cumbersome than just sticking with the status quo etiquette.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2023-03-10 08:54 pm (UTC)(link)
same. one of my characters has a popular fanon ship that i don't like so i specifically have it listed as a "notp" in that character's permissions post. that way other people don't have to waste time asking or guessing whether i want to play that ship or not.